really attractive people tell you that all you have to do is wait, and then love/romance will find you? Of course for them that's true; it's like if a billionaire told you that if you're poor, all you have to do is wait and money will come pouring in LOL
Also, I realized something this week. I know for a lot of men a threesome is seen as the be-all/end-all of sex (usually 2 women and the guy), but I've never been interested in that. But, since I can only be intimate with someone I have feelings for -and polyamory is not for me- that's why I've never seen that as something I wanted or cared to try and make happen. Makes sense to me!