Female problems, need somewhere to vent, heres a damned nice place.
so yesterday my girlfriend and I are lying in bed at my place and she says to me something along the lines of.
"I want to go to europe and when i do i dont want to be tied down so well probably break up"
she'd been having a bad morning so i shrugged it off rather than dwell on it.
later that night after work i call her, she was still in a bad mood, well i shouldnt say bad, but shitty, of course by that point Id had a day to dwell on the fact that the first girl id ever considered my life with years from now says she wants to be with me, but when she visits europe for a few months she doesnt wanna betied down.
Now I know it makes sense i guess, but im all madly in love and when she says pretty much she doesnt wanna be with me while shes gone because she doesnt wanna feel guilty for what she does but when she comes back she does want to be with me... bah confuses me
So after a day of dwelling i tell her my worries and how much it hurt and everything.
Now she'll barely talk to me because she was depressed and I shouldnt have told her all that
I feel like a bad guy and everything and it sucks
bah, females
I know im babbling, hard to make coherant thoughts whent he love of your life wont talk to you.
so yesterday my girlfriend and I are lying in bed at my place and she says to me something along the lines of.
"I want to go to europe and when i do i dont want to be tied down so well probably break up"
she'd been having a bad morning so i shrugged it off rather than dwell on it.
later that night after work i call her, she was still in a bad mood, well i shouldnt say bad, but shitty, of course by that point Id had a day to dwell on the fact that the first girl id ever considered my life with years from now says she wants to be with me, but when she visits europe for a few months she doesnt wanna betied down.
Now I know it makes sense i guess, but im all madly in love and when she says pretty much she doesnt wanna be with me while shes gone because she doesnt wanna feel guilty for what she does but when she comes back she does want to be with me... bah confuses me
So after a day of dwelling i tell her my worries and how much it hurt and everything.
Now she'll barely talk to me because she was depressed and I shouldnt have told her all that
I feel like a bad guy and everything and it sucks
bah, females
I know im babbling, hard to make coherant thoughts whent he love of your life wont talk to you.
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but on to the girl issues. girls are a strange species, i swear, and maybe (i don't know your relationship but i know how some girls are) just maybe shes so attatched to you that she wants to push you away when she goes away and knows that she can't be near you.
that or maybe shes a young girl who wants to be young.
either way, that is most certainly no reflection on you- at all. you just keep being yourself and try not to have her attitude or pissyness or depression effect your state of mind--- cause us girls just get so emotional sometimes.
maybe you both should really think about what you want and really discuss it.
me giving relationsip advice is like the blind leding the blind. hehe
hope it works out babe <3