Doing better today, I figure I am just going to put my foot down and tell him to back the hell off because that is the kind of girl i am. I do NOT let a man tell me what I can and can not do, no matter how much I love him. My father does that, and the only reason why I let him get away with it is because he scares the hell out of me. And Ryan fell in love with ME. Not some silly image he had in his head of a meek obedient house wife. I will do as I please and if he has an issue with it, we will discuss it like adults, not him forbidding me to do it as if i were a child.
remod66:
You are your own person--and you don't seem likely to forget that. Excellent!
chronas:
Bravo!!!! Ahh this makes me so happy!