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biggrin happy 1-1-11 biggrin

wishing you all a happy, prosperous healthy new year kiss
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violentpatriot:
hey... it is 111. ugh and I missed 1:11:11 by 34 minutes.
maturano:
hello there! happy new year! wink
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ok, question.... how many of you reading this have had a stalker? and, if you are comfortable sharing, what was the outcome of the situation?
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onespeed:
no stalker for me. hope you are ok though.
shmoogy:
My ex boyfriend stalked me after he broke up with me he used to drive by my house at night to see if my car was in the drive way and one night when it wasn't he called me the next morning to ask me where I was the night before, none of his business!!!
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hellboy7:
I like the story. When does the movie come out?
shmoogy:
Haha biggrin
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smilesmilesmile Happy Festivus, everyone!!!!! smilesmilesmilesmilesmile


now go air your grievances, and lets perform feats of strength!
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jaybird:
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I'm going to hide from customers in my cave today,
and then take my kids shopping tonight,
which is a feat of patience.
hardticket:
I am off to the Garage to lift heavy things...including the half telephone pole out there. wink
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hi everyone! i haven't been on here much lately, sorry, i suck! all those who have been kind enough to write may throw stones kiss
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letranger:
You're forgiven and you don't suck.
hardticket:
Hope everything is ok. Merry Merry!lovekiss
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bokhappy turkey day!bok
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guitarpicker:
Same to you beautiful!
northron:
You have a kitten and a pup!
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horrifying.

female genital mutiliation still occurring

what are your thoughts on how to stop this mutilation?
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humguy:
This is a truly barbaric practice that needs to end. Unfortunately, laws are often an ineffective way to combat religious or cultural practices. Laws banning FGM have often resulted in driving the practice further underground, thereby putting the girl at greater risk of infection and death. The greatest successes at ending FGM have been achieved by working closely with communities in a way that all members of a marriage network give up the practice simultaneously.

Type III FGM, which includes the sewing shut (or using thorns) of all but a narrow vaginal opening for the passage of urine and menstrual flow is often performed without sterile procedures or anesthesia. This procedure is so fucked up in so many ways it sickens me. Cultural, societal, or religious traditions that ignore human rights and perpetuate violence against children and women have no place in any society.



saraberri:
well said.
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organizing a poly life can be interesting...such as dinner. simple chinese take out - texting each on their way home wasn't working, so i decided to call. take one order, the other is picking it up, 3 phone calls later, we're still not done biggrin. ok, now try working out who takes the kids where to which event, and forget scheduling date night! i need...
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oldernow:
get everyone on the same Google Calendar!! We have one called "Sandy" that everyone can put events on. plus "Remember the Milk" can help.
austere:
that is a brilliant idea. you should so try to find a software developer to help you design a poly scheduling program.
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shmoogy:
Cute!
pmunk:
Three of the best things all in one photo smile
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what i wished i had said -

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Dear Divorced Guy:
I'm very sorry to hear about what you are going through. Really, no - I'm REALLY SORRY to be hearing this - STOP talking about it. i don't care about your divorce - are you telling me about the split in gory detail because you hope i will join you in...
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oldernow:
oddly enough, one of the most effective methods is to actually, attentively *listen*. By making the person be conscious they will become self-conscious and that is usually the very thing they're running away from. most people choose someone to rant to based upon their instinctual awareness that this particular individual doesn't want to hear them in the first place, and so is not going to require any real interaction on their part. you can also say -- "interesting, I'll have to tell my hsbnd about this" -- indicating that you are going to spread their sobstory elsewhere.

then, after a few minutes say: "if you really wanted to talk about this you would pick a time and a person who was capable of giving you their full attention. This is not the time and I am not that person, so please deal with your own denial professionally when you are ready to get real help."
franie:
I know how you feel about the folks in the office. I would just not entertain them by listening to the outside stuff and keep it focused on work. Just my two cents.smile
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go vote, peeples!

and try not to destroy the country, kay? remember that politicians serve all their constituents, not simply those who's lifestyles they endorse, or are comfortable with, or who share the same religious beliefs. so fucking bigots and haters need not apply. biggrin we need people who can govern sanely.

datsun:
I'm dumb - I deleted when I meant to accept. Accept me?
datsun:
Why hello, blue-posting lady!