Thanks for all the advice. I did end up giving him another chance. He's a really sweet guy. I figure the whole in bed thing can be worked out. Well, the second time the same thing happened, but then a little bit later we tried again and it all worked out.
The more he tells me about the issue the more I think it's a medical problem. He has been married forever and that's the woman he has slept with and has had this problem with as well. I call him my virgin boy because really he is. OF COURSE he's not married anymore. I wouldn't date a married man. Anyway, he has really bad circulation like his feet fall asleep constantly and the back of his arms have no feeling a lot of the time. So, I told him I wonder if it's a circulation problem. And he go so excited that might be it that he called today and made a doctors apointment. Poor guy. I really think it might be though. I guess we'll see.
My mother is not thrilled about him. And really I can't figure out why I like him so much. Okay here's the breakdown. He's got kids (a 13 year old girl and a 11 year old boy), he's in the navy (he's a teacher), he's older (33) and he's divorced. All things I said I would never date. My brain is telling me it's a bad idea but for some reason my heart is really attached to him. Maybe it's not real. I don't know. Maybe I should just listen to my mother and wise up. What do you guys think?
In other news, my job still sucks.
The more he tells me about the issue the more I think it's a medical problem. He has been married forever and that's the woman he has slept with and has had this problem with as well. I call him my virgin boy because really he is. OF COURSE he's not married anymore. I wouldn't date a married man. Anyway, he has really bad circulation like his feet fall asleep constantly and the back of his arms have no feeling a lot of the time. So, I told him I wonder if it's a circulation problem. And he go so excited that might be it that he called today and made a doctors apointment. Poor guy. I really think it might be though. I guess we'll see.
My mother is not thrilled about him. And really I can't figure out why I like him so much. Okay here's the breakdown. He's got kids (a 13 year old girl and a 11 year old boy), he's in the navy (he's a teacher), he's older (33) and he's divorced. All things I said I would never date. My brain is telling me it's a bad idea but for some reason my heart is really attached to him. Maybe it's not real. I don't know. Maybe I should just listen to my mother and wise up. What do you guys think?
In other news, my job still sucks.
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Happy (extremely belated) Birthday, girl!
As for the guy - it's happened to me before, so i'm pretty sure he was being honest. and yes, being drunk and overweight exacerbates the "issue" (at least in my case). Out of curiosity, how much older a man would you draw the line at?