So, I find myself wondering why, after as long as I have been alive, do I find myself actually thinking about having an affair? It is something I have never done before with any relationship I have been in, but now, I find myself actually thinking about it. I love my wife, so please do not think otherwise, but I find the physical part of our relationship severely lacking. Used to be, we had spice like there was not going to be a tomorrow. Now, I am lucky if she will do more than hug me, or if in the throes of passion, if she will do more than run her hands up and down my body. I have tried everything I can think of to bring the spice back, but anytime I bring up anything, she thinks I am saying she isn't good enough in bed. While I know the few followers I have may read this and think this is just garbage or what not, and I am sorry to those who think so. But honestly ladies, from your point of view, what is it I am doing wrong or how to relight her fire and passion. I do not truly want to cheat, I just want what I had. So please ladies, tell me what you have found works when it has felt like the passion has died in your relationships, whether from your action/ inaction, or his/ her action/ inaction. I want to know.
Just please do not attack me for the thinking about having an affair, because I truly don't, its more the demons coming out and they are hungry.