"Years ago my mother used to say to me, she'd say, "In this world, Elwood, you must be" - she always called me Elwood - "In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me." Elwood P Dowd
There comes a point when you know, change is not an option! Find your true self, pursue your dreams and discover what life has to offer.
Complacency is amongst the greatest killers and evils I have ever known, the shades of grey that keep us from the light and doing what we know we should. This is not a judgement, sadly more of a reflection. With a little awareness, it will be overcome.