so its now sunday i guess... i didnt go out tonight wasnt really in the mood to partake in all the shenanigans... nonetheless i started cleaning up my basement area so i can put my new weight bench in... i even got some of that click together rubber flooring so that the weights wont fuck up the floor... i will finish it up tomorrow. and ill post a few before and after pictures of my new masterpiece... hahaha
so heres part two of this post... anyway im an extrovert in real life. ive never had any problems going up to ppl and talkin to them. but for some reason when it comes to talking to ppl on either this site or other interweb sites i have no idea what to say (type i guess). is this a problem for anybody else or am i just whacked in the head.. cuz for example my roomate is the exact opposite... i dunno it kinda sucks cuz if i do end up sayin hi to someone (unprovoked and not in a group) i always feel that it came out wrong and the person will think its wierd or somethin... i dunno *shrug*
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on a kick ass note: usual suspects is on the independant film channel and im about to go out and have a cigarette after this scene . have a good night folks ill be here all night
so heres part two of this post... anyway im an extrovert in real life. ive never had any problems going up to ppl and talkin to them. but for some reason when it comes to talking to ppl on either this site or other interweb sites i have no idea what to say (type i guess). is this a problem for anybody else or am i just whacked in the head.. cuz for example my roomate is the exact opposite... i dunno it kinda sucks cuz if i do end up sayin hi to someone (unprovoked and not in a group) i always feel that it came out wrong and the person will think its wierd or somethin... i dunno *shrug*
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on a kick ass note: usual suspects is on the independant film channel and im about to go out and have a cigarette after this scene . have a good night folks ill be here all night
he works out, has a whole room in his house for it. the basement is smart, though! he got a bottom floor apartment. so, in case he dropped some weights, "They won't fall through the floor into someone else's apartment"
as for talking to people vs. typing things out, always keep in mind that the preferred method for communication for an extrovert is oral (talking), while introverts tend towards writing. possibly due to the differences in how the information is processed. introverts want to think things through, and writing allows them to go back and edit things (and think through their thoughts before writing). an extrovert tends to say what is on their mind. writing makes them think things through, not their preferred method.
being an extreme introvert and also interested in personality psychology, I've done some reading on the subject. one really good book I've found for this is the Introvert Advantage. my copy is currently on loan to a co-worker who is an extreme extrovert. my hope is that it helps her in dealing with her future staff in a better way (although she does an extremely good job, since she is very personable). akways a thoguht. one of the interesting parts of that book is how an extrovert processes information in (if I remember right) 5 steps. an introvert (if I remember right) has about 7 to 9 steps. one of the reasons as well why introverts need the time to think things through.....they actually take longer to process stuff!
and thanks for the comments....quite true, quite true in fact!