I guess treating a woman like a person and not lying to them or trying to scam them is a totally alien concept to the women I met. The neighbor girl that I've been seeing freaked out on me saying "I can't figure you out, what kind of scam are you pulling on me, people are not that nice". No scams no bullshit, I'm way past that. If I like something about you I tell you if there is something I don't like about you I tell you.
I have an engineering background so I have a very pragmatic view of the world. I'm finding out that this doesn't mesh all that well with some people.