Pity dates... a bad thing?
I went out with a pleasant, nice enough fellow, but there was no chemistry. Bupkus. Unfortunately, he seems to like me and would like to go out again. I feel like I'm about to club a baby seal. Part of me wants to go out with him again just because I'd like to delay the clubbing. Which would make it a pity date and kind of mean.
Man, this dating thing is hard. No wonder I swore it off for a couple years.
I went out with a pleasant, nice enough fellow, but there was no chemistry. Bupkus. Unfortunately, he seems to like me and would like to go out again. I feel like I'm about to club a baby seal. Part of me wants to go out with him again just because I'd like to delay the clubbing. Which would make it a pity date and kind of mean.
Man, this dating thing is hard. No wonder I swore it off for a couple years.
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Maybe there will be more chemistry the second time around. Doesn't hurt anything, right?
From a guy's point of view, even a go-nowhere date is still a date, and better than staying home watching re-runs of the Andy Griffith show on the superstation.
Besides, a no chemistry date might just turn into a nice friendship. I met several of my female buddies that way.