n i have sex, i used to feel like i should have a bra on... SG has given me a place to show myself and get complete love and nothing but good from it. anyone who hates or deosnt understand SG is just not getting it. this is a place where people value all different kinds of beautiful women. so many variations of women on here and they are all beautiful. I always wanted to write a book, or inspire younger girls who are so concerned with their bodies, or wanting to be like 80 pounds. I have had two children and have stretch marks, i have a giant scar on my breast, and i still feel sexy and beautiful. because i love who I am. If you love who you are, so will everyone else. lesson of the day.
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soultry:
Osiruss, @cirice, @littlejohn22 I was full term with huge twin girls! So ya, they destroyed my entire stomach inside and out! I had a tummy tuck that repaired the damage inside and took off the access skin. I have a large scar that I tattooed. Sure, I camoauged my battle wounds but they are still there and I see them differently now...if that makes any sense. Before the surgery I was extremely conscious about my stomach. I was not with the father and was single during the pregnancy (which was emotionally awful!) so dating was not happening for me. I didn't have sex or any kind of sexuality period for over 2 years!! Fuck!! Having that surgery changed my life! I worked like a slave to pay for it and recovery fucking sucked!!!! But I feel stronger in my core and more confident. I still have the these baby stretch marks all around the scar that kind of look like lightening lol and they actually created a new belly button which is more of an "outtie" but I'm ok with it. I feel terrific and I have incredible sex now!!!
osiruss:
wow that must have been super difficult recovering from having twins! i do think the stretch marks look like lightning too, its kinda neat. running in my best medicine, for my body, my mental balance, happiness, everything, it just gets me feeling alive again. when i dont run i just feel less energy!!! i guess im born to run and my body gets pissed at me if i dont run! i love your story about getting it tattooed over. i think i would have done the same thing!!!! great idea!!!! us women are beautiful. no matter what anyone says, or how different a person looks, its interesting the variety of beauty on SG is so huge, i love how there is not just one certain look that defines SG now, there is variety of women's appearances, and curves, and some have less tats and some have more tats etc, just lots of variety which is very nice.