I dont want to be the whiny guy that says "It's not fair" but... I am going to be the whiny guy that says it. It's not fucking fair... I hadnt had a date in forever, and now that I am moving out of town, things have perked up locally.
Maybe I am misreading things, and taking kindness for interest, but sometimes friendship does blossom into something better. And this feels like the start of one of those times but I have no time to work it out because I am leaving town in about a month or so to start a new job.
So either I speed things up and let it crash, or I can spend the rest of my life wondering what if I had stayed around and developed something good with this woman?
I am thinking I am going to go a third option and just put all my cards out and see what she says. Just basically be like, "Hey, I know we were just friendly chatting but so that I can grow as a person and really identify if a woman is interested in a man, did you have any interest in dating me or was it purely flirtatious friendship?" I figure if I keep it clinical and the heart disconnected, it will be less uncomfortable for her to answer and easier for me to take my medicine. Unless of course she says yes, I am interested. Then I have to figure out if she digs long distance relationships.
I got to stop overthinking these things.
Plan A - Move to Indy, be content and maybe something will happen out there that is similar to what is going on now. Or maybe it won't.
There is no Plan B.
ARGH!
So confused...
Maybe I am misreading things, and taking kindness for interest, but sometimes friendship does blossom into something better. And this feels like the start of one of those times but I have no time to work it out because I am leaving town in about a month or so to start a new job.
So either I speed things up and let it crash, or I can spend the rest of my life wondering what if I had stayed around and developed something good with this woman?
I am thinking I am going to go a third option and just put all my cards out and see what she says. Just basically be like, "Hey, I know we were just friendly chatting but so that I can grow as a person and really identify if a woman is interested in a man, did you have any interest in dating me or was it purely flirtatious friendship?" I figure if I keep it clinical and the heart disconnected, it will be less uncomfortable for her to answer and easier for me to take my medicine. Unless of course she says yes, I am interested. Then I have to figure out if she digs long distance relationships.
I got to stop overthinking these things.
Plan A - Move to Indy, be content and maybe something will happen out there that is similar to what is going on now. Or maybe it won't.
There is no Plan B.
ARGH!
So confused...