I just got in about ten minutes ago. I had the best night I think I have had in over a year. A friend of mine set me up on a date. Now normally I would have said no because the women he wanted to set me up with shares none of the same interests as me. We actually have next to nothing in common, but sick of being alone I agreed to the date. Let me just say I am so happy I did. The whole evening was incredible. Though we didn't do anything worth posting really just spending the evening with her was fun, and though this definitely will not end in relationship bliss. It was fun to go out and just be myself and have a good time with someone I might never have met before.
There are a couple people that have requested my friendship and I have not ok'ed them or declined them. It has nothing to do with the fact that I don't like them or I don't find them worthy. I just have few friends on here and thats how I like it. I feel sometimes its easy to get caught up in the myspace style atmosphere of friend whores. ( I realize some of you on my list have a lot of friends. Thats fine I am not dogging you for that. I am just saying for me. ) What I am saying is the people that I have either requested the friendship of or have ok'ed there request are people I genuinely like. People that share similar interest's as me. Like minded people ( thats scary ) that I would love to hang out with. Basically I don't know how to tell said person not that I don't want to be there friend just I have to feel some sort of connection before accepting the request.
Does anyone else feel this way???
There are a couple people that have requested my friendship and I have not ok'ed them or declined them. It has nothing to do with the fact that I don't like them or I don't find them worthy. I just have few friends on here and thats how I like it. I feel sometimes its easy to get caught up in the myspace style atmosphere of friend whores. ( I realize some of you on my list have a lot of friends. Thats fine I am not dogging you for that. I am just saying for me. ) What I am saying is the people that I have either requested the friendship of or have ok'ed there request are people I genuinely like. People that share similar interest's as me. Like minded people ( thats scary ) that I would love to hang out with. Basically I don't know how to tell said person not that I don't want to be there friend just I have to feel some sort of connection before accepting the request.
Does anyone else feel this way???
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I'm kind of with you on the few friends thing. More so in so-called real life than on this site I guess. I like to keep my circle small so that every relationship is meaningful and I can give a lot of myself to it.