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ok so I need your advice...

there is this guy that likes me. his name is tony. he's my best friend's hubby's good friend. I like him too a little and thinking of at least throwing down with him.



that's him all the way in the front left of the pic. what do you think? do you think he is ugly too? my friends all think he's cute. I was eh over him too but I got to talking to him and I'm warming up.

oxox

I notoriously date only non-white guys.

he's cape verdean by the way.

white guys don't like me for some reason, plus there are not many of them around here.

he has a nice body too. I hope I see him again soon.

Thinkin' about me, huh?

i read your thread. Sorry, i have trouble even putting attachments on emails. But good luck none the less!
Seriously, my only advice would be look on the toolbar, or check your printer settings.

Of course, you're the prettiest girl on here.

Mini house party at hypnogogic's Saturday night? Free music and cheap liquor if we bring our own. What do you think?

Every parent has those kinds of frustrations. You can tell the good parents by how they act after the fact. And they act just like you did. It's the parents who never bother to explain that are the problem. I can tell you are a good mom. And trust me. I know a lot about bad parenting. I see the results of it all the time. I am just glad there are good parents out there to keep me from getting too jaded.

I grew up with a real asshole stepfather (he's now divorced from my mom and is in a psychiatric prison if that gives you any idea, but that's another story). He was very verbally abusive when I was young. At some point after becoming a parent and constantly beating myself up over stuff like that, I realized something about parents... we're humans. In his case, he's a Vietnam vet who used to have a lot of flashbacks, etc, and really believed he was exposed to chemical agents, and that's not too hard to believe. I can't even imagine how incredibly difficult it would have been to survive something like that. He was also a really good guy- very funny, intelligent, and really wanted a good, normal family. He called me about 6 months ago (before prison) and left me a voice mail, apologizing for anything he'd ever done that hurt me and I heard real pain in his voice. It didn't erase the things he'd done, but I understand now why it happened and the suffering he was going through, too.

You're human. You're going to say shitty things that you don't really feel good about later, and you're going to get angry/disappointed with your kids. As long as you love them and show them that you love them (and aren't doing anything wacky like handcuffing them in a crib or slapping them in the head when they spill their milk), you're doing your job as a parent.

I don't think this is helpful so I'm stopping now.

third grade is a tough one.

my daughter had a hard time with it.

don't kill yourself over it. but it is very frustrating.

kids make you do crazy and all but they are so worth it, and it sounds like you are doing the right thing.

hey you! it's been a while, but i'm finally back on the site and wanted to drop a quick line to say hey. i hope things are going well for you! take care.

haha i still a whole year till im 21, im a baby i dont turn 21 till my senior year of college and you are not old, and even if you are id still do you all night long

It only gets more exciting after 30.

Dont think about it much, and it wont bother you.

I think I absolutely went berserk after 30, but in a good way.

It's still good.....

My day was worse than i thought.

ya that was sweet

i can't wait to see it!

I wish they were just dogs or cats, not the case though.

Thanks for the comment.

Call me later and let me know when you are going to BG. Missed you last night, hope all is good!

That is classic. I love kids.
Last night Jesse and i were laying in bed, jesse had no top on. Addies came down to go potty. She came in to give us hugs goodnight, on the way out she says "momma, i like your boobies"

tee hee. i like the whole package.

I can't agree with the last one or the third to last. sorry

I got your message. No problem, we tried to have fun without you.

...the closing of your doors will never shut us out, the closing of your doors can only shut you in...
When? I want to go!

Who's John Trudell?

And I totally thought you were looking for... me.

i was driving the otherday, and started to dream of the ideal sandwichfor me ....