So I am now dating a beautiful younger woman. She is awesome. However she needs to work on her communication skills. I text her and don`t hear back from her for hours, sometimes not until the next day even. I am trying to be patient and not text her endlessly. If she doesn`t respond to my text I wait for like 5 hours and then text her again usually asking if everything is ok. Like I said I am trying to be understanding. She has recently lost two very good friends in death and is struggling with grieving. She says it doesn`t bother her if I ask her to come over alot. I guess perhaps it makes her feel wanted. She will come to the bank I work at to do some banking and she always gives me a kiss when she leaves. I know she likes me. She is very outspoken and if something is bothering her she will tell it right away. And she has been in bad relationships in the past and dumps them very quickly,....so if she didn`t like me she would tell me and dump me right away. Just had to put this out there, hope things continue to go good.
myvampire:
Please tell me if I am over reacting. Third time in a row my girlfriend
has not shown up to my place. No text responce. And when she does
finanlly respond it is 4 to 5 hours later saying she slept in.
Everything and everybody comes before me. I mean I am supposed to be her
boyfriend, isn`t she supposed to want to spend time with me. Texting
her is a joke. She will text a little bit then in mid conversation just
stop texting for hours.I mean I know she is going through alot, but she
doesn`t seem to even try to put forth any effort in this relationship.