i feel like it is time for me to make a change, but i do not know what to do. im a very busy person, but when im at home not doing anything, it makes me feel unfulfilled and somewhat worthless. i just dont get it. i should enjoy being able to just sit at home and relax for a little bit, right? i would like to start going out more and having fun, but its hard to since im the only one out of my group of friends that doesnt drink or do drugs. instead of going to a bar and just sitting, id rather go bowling, but no one else wants to do that. i have to start forcing myself to be a more sociable person. i need to go out of my comfort zone and try to talk to new people or try new things. and all of that is easier said than done....
laurelin:
i feel the same way. i drink, but not as much as my friends. i joined a gym and started rock climbing, and other other day i took a MMA fighting training class, and later that night a burlesque dancing class. i signed up for a writing class for later in the summer as well... just anything to get me outta the house and doing something different when i'm not at work. look into things your community offers. you'd be suprised, there's probably a lot out there 
good luck! xo.
good luck! xo.
venillarose:
A change is a good thing. I dont really drink much and I dont do drugs, it can be hard in social situations, especially because I work in a "gentlemans" club. I am surrounded by drunk people all the time and people wanting to buy me drinks. Maybe start looking into different social groups. Its hard to make the first step but I'm sure you would be glad you did.