minxxy

So it's the beginning of the year... And I have never really been a resolution maker. I hate thinking of it that way... I try to look at it as things I don't want to do again this year, or things I want to improve on.

That being said I guess I have a few things this year I want to change:

*Attitude: Mainly how negative I can be about things. If I put so much energy to be mad about something, couldn't I put that same amount into not letting things get to me, or finding the Brightside? Everyone wants to be happy, so in general why do people (mostly me) spend so much time allowing ourselves to be miserable?

*Work: Working on getting that promotion... I need more hours, more money, and more responsibility. I am a smart, capable woman... I know people at work see that... so it's time to step up my game, so no one can dispute it.

*Friends: Spend more time with the people I call my friends. Really I just need people in my life who cheer me up and keep my positive, I know love me and have my best interest at heart. I guess also stop worrying about the people who don't... itt's the choice they've made, why should I feel bad about it.

*Love: Really focus on communicating... I am so tired of doing things that aren't appreciated, for having to tolerate bad moods, and for having to bite my tongue.

*Weight/ Self Esteem: Building my confidence. I want to feel and know I'm pretty. I want to be confident. I know my weight is a big factor and by trying to change small things I know it will make a big difference. I'm not going to diet, or starve myself, make unreasonable goals... maybe no goals at all. Just choose to eat better, exercise more... Just feel better in general.

*Financially: There is always room for improvement. Pay off bills, hopefully with that new promotion I'm gunning for I can do that, and still have a little extra for some other things.

Most of all have more fun, enjoy life, and make this year better then the last...