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Buenos Aires, Argentina (Originally from NJ/NYC)

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Thursday Dec 11, 2003

Dec 11, 2003
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Until I die I'll never give up on romance. I love it and live for it. Last night I went on one of the best dates I've ever been on.

A few weeks back one of my ex girlfriends moved home. She and I have been good friends ever since we dated 12 years ago. We enjoy each others company emensely and have continued through out the years to go out on dates whenever it fit into both of our schedules.

We started out the night cooking dinner together and having a few drinks. We made a nice garlic bread crustini topped with diced tomatos, onions, basil, fresh garlic, and olive oil appetizer, and since she's a vegetarian we had eggplant parmigiana for dinner.

Once we had dinner we got all dressed up in fancy clothes. She had on a beautiful black skirt, a black camisole top, with a cardigan sweater over that, and her Mary Jane shoes. She looked absolutely amazing.

I remembered from way back her favorite ice cream flavor and brand. It has to be Breyer's Mint Chocalate Chip for her. So after we were ready we had a bit of dessert and headed off to see a show.

We went to The New Jersey Performing Arts Center in Newark to see George Winston. It's a relatively new building based around the layout of the traditional opera houses. It's a stunning place to see a show. We had a set of box seats on the third tier up that over looked the stage perfectly.

George Winston is a solo pianist on the Windam Hill record label. I really don't know how to describe his music to fully express how good it is. It just evokes emotions so deep inside of you that you can't help but be moved when you hear it. We have both been fans of his for a long time and this was the first time either of us were getting to see him perform.

He did about a two hour show that just blew us both away. There were times when you could just shut your eyes and be carried away with the music. Going places in your mind that you could only dream of.

Afterwards we met up with some of my friends at a local bar I fequent for a few more drinks. It's good to know the bartender. He hooked us up so well. I think the total bill was half of what we should have payed.

We had a few more drinks back at my friend's studio after that and then headed back home.

It felt so good to be out dressed up, going to such a fancy place, for such a good show. To be with her. To have such a good time.

Is she my girlfriend? Nope. Does that take away from the fact that we had a brilliant time? Not at all. She's just someone who likes spending time with me and who I like spending time with.

I can't understand why more people don't try and remain friends with former lovers. Sometimes it's impossible I know, but there was a bond made at one point and why should it have to end when you split up?

That had to be one of the most perfect nights out I have had in a long time.

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roby:
i've always liked the idea of remaining friends with former romantic partners. i've tried really hard to make it work, but sometimes this person that you thought you knew really well and you were really close with turned out to make no sense at all. with my last partner, we would break up and get back together on almost a monthly basis, but we "were never really dating" the entire time. he couldn't commit, not that i was making him or pressuring him. it just got old after a while, with me going, "this isn't working. i want something normal." and then having him go "what's not normal about it?". so, finally, after a wonderful summer together (it really was) we split up for college. and i began seeing someone else. when i told him, he suddenly became incredibly possessive and jealous, and i found myself feeling like i was a bitch...and of course we hooked up again...and two months later, when i'm finally feeling it's safe to be completely ga-ga over this guy, he tells me he can't do it. he has feelings for someone else. it really broke my heart. it did, and it's really hard to feel like i should have to pursue any sort of connection with him in the future, but i want to, because, you know, you work so hard to get so close to someone. it's hard to just toss it all out the window. to forget about it all. i just don't want this to happen again between us. i want this to be the last time, and until he knows what he wants, i'm a little scared to be his friend.

heh heh, thanks for the great photo by the way.
Dec 12, 2003
jena:
Well you missed a great show tho I hope you had a good night! SoEffinHappy totally came thru and he was cool and everyone had fun-YAY! I'm assuming you will be at the holiday bash on the 20th??? i think i should be because i have to be in NY next week anyway but i cannot be positive. Anyway i think sometime soon we should have movie night at my apt. AND we must start the SG Philly bowling league. miao!!
Dec 13, 2003

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