I found out to day the one thing that is important to all of us, is we all need some one to listen to and to be heard. it is not enough to to talk over the person. but be aware the are trying to say the right words. not all of us can do this including me as i can tend to say the wrong thing to the other person and end up wishing i had said it the right way round. so end up so not to much or worrying a good conversation to start with. that should not stop anyone in having an enquiring mind and to know there is no stupid answers or questions. 
aaronsrod:
So what happend that made you find this out, do tell I like a good story 