I HATE GUYS. Like a whole lot. Except the ones that aren't assholes, those are good. Anyway, I think I'm being stalked. This guy works near me and himself, his friend and one of my coworkers all hung out the other night. So this guy is writing me text messages on his phone and passing it to me when everyone was around, saying things like, "You're cute," which turned into,"You're a tease," which turned into, "Lets go to my house so I can give you a massage."
So I gave him his phone back telling him I do not communicate through text messages and ended up taking off. So he leaves me like four messages on my cell (stupid me for giving him the number) wanting to know why I bailed and didn't give him the ride home I promised and what he did wrong. So I told him it was an uncomfurtable situation so I left. So I'm thinking everythings fine and he shows up at work at 12am while I'm closing the store and asks me to talk to him. I repeated to him why I left and said I need to get back to work thinking wtf is this guy thinking showing up like this.
Anyway, he asked me to go to his house and I said no, Im busy, he asked me to call him, I said no I'm busy. I so do not need this crap right now let me tell you. Any advice for warding off unwanted attention?
So I gave him his phone back telling him I do not communicate through text messages and ended up taking off. So he leaves me like four messages on my cell (stupid me for giving him the number) wanting to know why I bailed and didn't give him the ride home I promised and what he did wrong. So I told him it was an uncomfurtable situation so I left. So I'm thinking everythings fine and he shows up at work at 12am while I'm closing the store and asks me to talk to him. I repeated to him why I left and said I need to get back to work thinking wtf is this guy thinking showing up like this.
Anyway, he asked me to go to his house and I said no, Im busy, he asked me to call him, I said no I'm busy. I so do not need this crap right now let me tell you. Any advice for warding off unwanted attention?
1.tell the guy eve though hes a nice guy nothing will EVER happen between the two of you. then leave
2.if he shows up at work let your boss (manager) KNOW YOU HAVE A CREEPY GUY WHO WONT LEAVE YOU ALONE. (this protects you as your boss can take over the situation, and make the judgement cal, have him leave or call the police)
3.this ones kinda evil but hey! if he keeps bothering you call the police (non-emergency) when he standing in front of you and tell them you have a fuckin creepy guy who wort leave you alone and say you want information on a restraining order and you want a unit dispatched (do this at work). a restraining order even though over the top will show up on his file and if he bothers you again he goes to jail.
4. the best..... have a guy friend beat the shit out of him.. and tell him if he tries to talk to you again hell do it again.
anyway......
sorry to hear that i have a girl who won't stop calling me so i turned my phone off for 3 days it seems to have solved the problem.