Sunday Jan 25, 2009

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Serious truth time. Do not expand if you do not want to see me emotionally bleed.

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I haven't been able to orgasm for four months and I don't know why. Not for lack of trying with solos and duos too. I went through a period before where I had the same problem and it scares me. I couldn't orgasm for about a year and lost some people that could have made my life much different. Now I find myself in the same situation. My wife and I are trying to have kids but I find myself unable to keep up my end of the bargain. I seriously just want to put a bullet in my head. I mean... if I can't orgasm, what kind of a human, let alone man, am I?

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geckogirl:
stress can have that effect. it could be stress about things unrelated to the things that go "hand in hand" with orgasm or, perhaps, you're feeling stressed about trying to have a baby. both the trying and the having are stressful things.

did you ever come to a conclusion about what was the trigger the last time it happened? if not, could you reflect on it and see if there is something you can see in hindsight?
chi:
Stress can definitly effect that. As well as medication. My boy can't orgasm either due to being on meds. You are definitly not alone on this one. Try to relax and not have the pressure of baby making on the mind. Go to a hotel or have fun sex outside. Have her tie you up and just tease you for a while. Yeah, those sounds like great plans. wink

P.S.
Have I told you lately how hot you are?

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