I fucking hate that bull shit. Gender roles my ass. You gals just don't wanna get hurt. Oh and by the way I'm not aiming this directly at anyone but it hurts when you give lame excuses to get out of dates
You ever hear of old-fashioned? Well, even if we gals are more "modern," a lot of us like to be asked out by guys because that's considered the norm. We still have the idea that guys may not like it if they're not the one asking us out because that means they're not wearing the pants in the relationship, etc etc. Also, they also might still like a more "timid" girl and aggressive types are often too "boyish" to go out with.
And you know what? I've had guys tell me that shit. So it's not lame excuses, it's the facts. There ARE girls out there that will ask guys out, I myself being one of those types, but it DOES have to do with society, and saying that it's bullshit IS bullshit. I did a survey on this in high school of as many high school guys and gals as I could, and the major question was "What gender should be doing the asking out and why?"
The most popular answers from girls? "Guys should because that's the way it's always been done" and "Guys should because I don't want to seem too aggressive." The tomboys were the ones that said they would ask a guy out. And sure, you might say that guys like tomboys, but a lot of them don't. Many responded to the survey saying, "Guys should because that's their role" and "Guys should because if a girl asks me out, I feel insecure."
Hmm to ask her out or not that is always the most difficult question to ponder. Do I stay freinds and just let it go on from there or do I make a move based on her flirtations. Too tough a decision, esp since there is always the rejection factor. And that we work together.
I've always pondered the question why it falls upon the... Read More
Sorry all you poor people that had to put up with my horn blaring, swearing, and flipping the bird. I really couldn't help it I was running late for the magic tourney and there was a 15 min detour. God damn idiots that shut down Farmington during rush hour.... Fuck it all.
Look I'm not playing that crazy, I mean I don't know about type 1 and type 2 and draft and all that stuff you'r talking about I just play Magic so I don't realy know what exactly you mean. I'm a litle confused with all this diferent types of Magic. Anyway Magic is the greatest card game ever.
Sorry all you poor people that had to put up with my horn blaring, swearing, and flipping the bird. I really couldn't help it I was running late for the magic tourney and there was a 15 min detour. God damn idiots that shut down Farmington during rush hour.... Fuck it all.
You were right it definately was time for an update.
Today was yet another long ass day. 12 hours in a humid pool and 90 degrees definately take its tole on the body. The one kind of crazy thing is there is this chick that I work with that I'm starting to crush on... I can sense the bad things that could happen already. But... Read More
Off to work another 13 hour day at the pool. I really dunno how I'm gonna make it. I went to bed at 1:00 and woke up at 4:30. Tonight I prolly won't be on but leave a message anyways.
Wow yesterday sucked alot. This year we are pretty understaffed at the pool or at least we have less staff than usual. Its esp hard when we have to rotate all of the staff through a lunch break.
And I'm kind of pissed i didn't get any sort of tan whilst I was outside for 2 hours yesterday, nor did I crispify.
Dude I just got some of the best news any gamer could get. The potential for a free top of the line 3.6 Ghz 2mb buffer Pentium 4, I just about did a back flip in joy. My dad's an Intel employee and when he found out that I was gonna build myself a new computer he mentioned that they give out free processors to... Read More
Hmm wow today was uneventful. I had to go back to work today(FUCK IT ALL). Whats even better is that I have to give a presentation to tell people to pay attention, and keep up with their training and recite my story tomorrow.
Oh and I found out that Joe the guy I saved came back to the pool to swim and hand out thank... Read More