Talk about a raw deal!
this is my latest drama, I posted an Outing, means you out someone on Model Mayhem, a portal and networking community for models and photogs, and it got locked in less than 2 mins, apparenly it's not allowed to out somone, so much for justice!
since early 2006 Jaime Ibarra #59023 has sought after me to fly from Phila to Charlotte NC. In June of 2007 i finally arranged it out of my own pocket for TFP with 4 and a half months in advanced, that tells you how quickly i get booked up. I have shot with a good number of your peers here on MM, and I am absolutely grateful to MM for being able to network with some jaw dropping talent here. Why am I outing this person you may ask, Because it cost me $182 and a time slot in the busiest weekend of the fall Lost due to his inconsiderate nature and he has yet to take responsibility, $182 may not be a lot to you, but i am only an Office Manager and i don't pull in a lot of cash, 90% of my shoots are TFP. and i foot the cost for all T/E unless someone is nice enough to offer to pay my way.
Jaime was married when he first contacted me then all of a sudden got divorced, started dating a 21 yr old model, and up and moved to another state. No formal email of cancelation, after we booked the flight around his schedule over the phone on my dime no less. then turned his profile into something straight out of eHarmony ad. the majority of his online port is now only of his GF. WTF
here is Exhibit A
Jaime Ibarra
04/18/06 9:36 PM
Hi Tanya -
I am not sure if you feel my work stacks up to your standards, but if you are ever in NC, I would really like to work with you...you are most definitely in my top 10 most wanted list!
I do not do nudes, but I am sure we could do some fantastic shots!
If nothing else, just wanted to let you know I admire your look, as well as the attitude shown in your shots. It really stands out above the rest.
Jaime Ibarra
05/18/06 12:58 AM
Hi there
Love the new shots!
Are you still considering coming to NC for a shoot? I never heard back from after the last email I sent.
Please let me know!
Jaime Ibarra
06/07/06 3:41 AM
Heya
Still looking forward to the possibility of shooting with you, although I noticed I am not in your "what's on my plate for 2006" list...how sad.
Please do let me know if you are still wanting to come to NC for a weekend!
~Jaime
Jaime Ibarra
07/04/06 11:00 PM
Is there a good chance we will see you here in NC anytime soon? I am anxious to work with you!
~jaime
Jaime Ibarra
04/29/07 5:53 AM
love your new work!
just wanted to ask one last time if/when you are coming to NC...
let me know either way,
~jaime ibarra
704.831.8178
www.ibarraphoto.com
jaime@ibarraphoto.com
love your new work!
just wanted to ask one last time if/when you are coming to NC...
let me know either way,
~jaime ibarra
704.831.8178
www.ibarraphoto.com
jaime@ibarraphoto.com
Tanya
05/01/07 10:53 AM
(Message read) let me check my calendar, I'll get back to you as soon as i do and check some travel deals.
Jaime Ibarra
05/01/07 2:27 PM
thanks...I always get the best deals through travelocity.com
Tanya
05/03/07 2:23 PM
(Message read) Ok i don't wanna come while it's sweltering there, how does mid, late august sound? and I'm staying at your place right?
Jaime Ibarra
05/03/07 8:28 PM
you can stay here, no problem
it is actually quite mild here right now...sweltering doesn't begin until June
Tanya
05/04/07 9:22 AM
(Message read) I'm not able to travel there in the spring, i have vacation this month and traveling to LA next month, so i need a bit to recoop finances. But I'm looking into August.
Jaime Ibarra
05/04/07 5:21 PM
sounds good to me
Tanya
09/18/07 11:16 AM
(Message read) Hey, i read your profile and i am a little concerned, you said you moved to NY, and we have a shoot on the 12th & 13th of October in Charlotte NC, and i sent you the Flight Itinerary after i purchased it. What's up?
tanya
Tanya
09/18/07 11:04 AM
(Message read) are you saying you moved to NY?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 12:14 PM
yes...
I sent out a message to everyone a few weeks ago letting them know...I am guessing you didn't get it?
oops...
Tanya
09/18/07 1:38 PM
(Message read) no i did not, I would have expected a little bit more of a formal cancellation from you since we talked over the phone and you helped me pick air out. so now i have a air ticket to Charlotte. are you willing to reimburse me?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 1:48 PM
yes, of course...I am really sorry.
there was SO much to do before the move, I am sure I neglected several people in the process...case in point, here.
is there a possibility we could change your ticket to come here? there are SO many locations to shoot here, it makes my brain hurt.
Tanya
09/18/07 1:55 PM
(Message read) what's the closest airport, and are the same dates ok?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 2:46 PM
let me check with Meagan on that one...she gets home later tonight (working right now)
I will let you know asap!
Tanya
09/19/07 11:48 AM
(Message read) Jaime,
I think it's best that we cancel, You had orig offered me to stay with you back in June, and just a few months later, i have a feeling that offer may not be so easy to extend due to your new circumstances, also we discussed that you wanted to do some nudes and implied, even though your online port did not include them for your client base views, I also have a feeling that may no longer be a desire of yours now. basically I think a lot may have changed recently for you personally, that would effect our orig shoot plans. I'm glad you have found love again after your spilt, very hard to find the older we get.
from a strangers perspective of your new profile and recent port it's clear that you are smitten, But that has moved you in another direction professionally. I'm disappointed that we got so close to finally working after about 2 years now. and i love and admire your work for some time now, BTW i don't just foot the bill and up and travel for just anyone.
I'll email you the Itinerary receipt from expedia for your taxes and proof of purchase to your Site Email, and can you please send me a check for $182. can you please ship it with a tracking #, either certified mail or the carrier of your choice and send me the info as well after you ship to,
best of luck to you in your future endeavors
Tanya
Tanya
10/08/07 10:31 AM
(Message read) Jaime,
I have not heard a response / reply from you in over 2 weeks, though you are clearly active to date on this site, what gives?
this is my latest drama, I posted an Outing, means you out someone on Model Mayhem, a portal and networking community for models and photogs, and it got locked in less than 2 mins, apparenly it's not allowed to out somone, so much for justice!
since early 2006 Jaime Ibarra #59023 has sought after me to fly from Phila to Charlotte NC. In June of 2007 i finally arranged it out of my own pocket for TFP with 4 and a half months in advanced, that tells you how quickly i get booked up. I have shot with a good number of your peers here on MM, and I am absolutely grateful to MM for being able to network with some jaw dropping talent here. Why am I outing this person you may ask, Because it cost me $182 and a time slot in the busiest weekend of the fall Lost due to his inconsiderate nature and he has yet to take responsibility, $182 may not be a lot to you, but i am only an Office Manager and i don't pull in a lot of cash, 90% of my shoots are TFP. and i foot the cost for all T/E unless someone is nice enough to offer to pay my way.
Jaime was married when he first contacted me then all of a sudden got divorced, started dating a 21 yr old model, and up and moved to another state. No formal email of cancelation, after we booked the flight around his schedule over the phone on my dime no less. then turned his profile into something straight out of eHarmony ad. the majority of his online port is now only of his GF. WTF
here is Exhibit A
Jaime Ibarra
04/18/06 9:36 PM
Hi Tanya -
I am not sure if you feel my work stacks up to your standards, but if you are ever in NC, I would really like to work with you...you are most definitely in my top 10 most wanted list!
I do not do nudes, but I am sure we could do some fantastic shots!
If nothing else, just wanted to let you know I admire your look, as well as the attitude shown in your shots. It really stands out above the rest.
Jaime Ibarra
05/18/06 12:58 AM
Hi there
Love the new shots!
Are you still considering coming to NC for a shoot? I never heard back from after the last email I sent.
Please let me know!
Jaime Ibarra
06/07/06 3:41 AM
Heya
Still looking forward to the possibility of shooting with you, although I noticed I am not in your "what's on my plate for 2006" list...how sad.
Please do let me know if you are still wanting to come to NC for a weekend!
~Jaime
Jaime Ibarra
07/04/06 11:00 PM
Is there a good chance we will see you here in NC anytime soon? I am anxious to work with you!
~jaime
Jaime Ibarra
04/29/07 5:53 AM
love your new work!
just wanted to ask one last time if/when you are coming to NC...
let me know either way,
~jaime ibarra
704.831.8178
www.ibarraphoto.com
jaime@ibarraphoto.com
love your new work!
just wanted to ask one last time if/when you are coming to NC...
let me know either way,
~jaime ibarra
704.831.8178
www.ibarraphoto.com
jaime@ibarraphoto.com
Tanya
05/01/07 10:53 AM
(Message read) let me check my calendar, I'll get back to you as soon as i do and check some travel deals.
Jaime Ibarra
05/01/07 2:27 PM
thanks...I always get the best deals through travelocity.com
Tanya
05/03/07 2:23 PM
(Message read) Ok i don't wanna come while it's sweltering there, how does mid, late august sound? and I'm staying at your place right?
Jaime Ibarra
05/03/07 8:28 PM
you can stay here, no problem
it is actually quite mild here right now...sweltering doesn't begin until June
Tanya
05/04/07 9:22 AM
(Message read) I'm not able to travel there in the spring, i have vacation this month and traveling to LA next month, so i need a bit to recoop finances. But I'm looking into August.
Jaime Ibarra
05/04/07 5:21 PM
sounds good to me
Tanya
09/18/07 11:16 AM
(Message read) Hey, i read your profile and i am a little concerned, you said you moved to NY, and we have a shoot on the 12th & 13th of October in Charlotte NC, and i sent you the Flight Itinerary after i purchased it. What's up?
tanya
Tanya
09/18/07 11:04 AM
(Message read) are you saying you moved to NY?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 12:14 PM
yes...
I sent out a message to everyone a few weeks ago letting them know...I am guessing you didn't get it?
oops...
Tanya
09/18/07 1:38 PM
(Message read) no i did not, I would have expected a little bit more of a formal cancellation from you since we talked over the phone and you helped me pick air out. so now i have a air ticket to Charlotte. are you willing to reimburse me?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 1:48 PM
yes, of course...I am really sorry.
there was SO much to do before the move, I am sure I neglected several people in the process...case in point, here.
is there a possibility we could change your ticket to come here? there are SO many locations to shoot here, it makes my brain hurt.
Tanya
09/18/07 1:55 PM
(Message read) what's the closest airport, and are the same dates ok?
Jaime Ibarra
09/18/07 2:46 PM
let me check with Meagan on that one...she gets home later tonight (working right now)
I will let you know asap!
Tanya
09/19/07 11:48 AM
(Message read) Jaime,
I think it's best that we cancel, You had orig offered me to stay with you back in June, and just a few months later, i have a feeling that offer may not be so easy to extend due to your new circumstances, also we discussed that you wanted to do some nudes and implied, even though your online port did not include them for your client base views, I also have a feeling that may no longer be a desire of yours now. basically I think a lot may have changed recently for you personally, that would effect our orig shoot plans. I'm glad you have found love again after your spilt, very hard to find the older we get.
from a strangers perspective of your new profile and recent port it's clear that you are smitten, But that has moved you in another direction professionally. I'm disappointed that we got so close to finally working after about 2 years now. and i love and admire your work for some time now, BTW i don't just foot the bill and up and travel for just anyone.
I'll email you the Itinerary receipt from expedia for your taxes and proof of purchase to your Site Email, and can you please send me a check for $182. can you please ship it with a tracking #, either certified mail or the carrier of your choice and send me the info as well after you ship to,
best of luck to you in your future endeavors
Tanya
Tanya
10/08/07 10:31 AM
(Message read) Jaime,
I have not heard a response / reply from you in over 2 weeks, though you are clearly active to date on this site, what gives?
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back to the accupuncture, yeah ive been wanting some kind of relaxation therapy but a masseuse is too expensive. It may not be as soothing to have someone jab at me with needles for two hours but as long as it's economical...
I hope you can get this resolved!