In the beginning everything is easy we over look the things that piss us off. Which doesn't work because it eats at u until u break and the shit hits the fan. Not saying the other person sweeps the floor wrong or snores loud....... Nothing like that. The bigger things that matters like there dreams that matter to them or ur dreams that matter to u. U embrace them in the beginning then one of u or the other take advantage and break the dreams. From my earlier post I said I have been busy trying to take care of someone else and lost my happiness. I'm a simple person there are few things I'm passionate about yet few people care to look and see that.