This world is full of them! I have to say one of my favorite arguments to have with my boyfriend has got to be about double standards in our relationship. So here is my double standard debate of the wk...
Should your significant other have a right to know your schedule?
I tend to give my bf a play by play of my day. Which I admit is a bit generous. However I know he's a worry wart and I like him to know where I so he knows I'm safe. But he can be a bit jealous so "who what when where" questions rear their ugly head from time to time.
The dbl standard:
My boyfriend hardly goes out but when he does I find out half way through his evening, and almost never txts me when he gets home Bc he's too damn drunk or passes out on his friends couch.
He's a good trust worthy guy so I normally don't care where he is or what he's doing but I know of I did the same ... ALL HELL WPULS BREAK LOOSE! I don't think its fair that I end up worrying if he's made it home safe or not do you?
How on earth did this dbl standard come to be !? I practically give him an outline of my life , without him asking and with detail if he does ask. In return I get no info on his drunken guy nights but all I care to know is "are u alive!? " wouldn't that be more than fair?
Ok I'm done ranting but certainly not done with bringing up random dbl standards I observe from time to time. So this blog will be continued :)
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