Sunday Aug 13, 2006

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well, it's over. carol didn't make it down for court, and i got everything i asked for. i made changes to the original draft, and it's somthing that i think the both of us can live with for now. the best thing to do right now is to remain on a non-agressive level. that will only make sara suffer in the long run. funny side...
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laceyk:
I am so happy that at least this part is over!
visara:
I'm glad for you smile

Tuesday Aug 08, 2006

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court is thursday. everyone has said that if sara goes up to indiana even for a visit, i'll play hell getting her back home if carol gets vindictive or posessive. i want to believe that carol won't do that to me, and especially sara, but i'm full of doubts.

i took carol off my health insurance today. that was like a brick to the face...
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laceyk:
I promise there is more than one anchor, and though I know how you feel and am currently trying to do the same myself, we have to find the anchor in ourselves.

By relying on others to provide it for us, we render ourselves helpless.

I am happy you have Sara to keep you strong.
I know you will only ever do what is right for her.

Sunday Aug 06, 2006

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we are now a hog hunting farm. apparently there are wild hogs running around our property, and we have neigbors nice enough to shoot them for us. i guess they are eating the horse feed, and rooting in the pastures. i guess we'll have bacon for a year. they got one yesterday that was 200+ pounds, and a 60 pound one today. i decided not...
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Friday Jul 28, 2006

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wife called again....notice a pattern yet? she says it's too much disruption for us to have sara live with each of us for 6 mos. and she should come live with her and they'll visit on importent days. i am in hell. i can't make anyone happy anymore. i am trying to stay the couse, but it's really hard. if i tell her she has...
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laceyk:
I thought that you were going to get full custody.
Please get it. I really think you would be a better parent!

Tuesday Jul 25, 2006

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the wife called me tonight and asked why i wouldn't let our daughter come and live with her. i told her it was a selfish reason. i need sara to help me get through this. we had established that in march i would take her up there for six months or so, but apparently that wasn't good enough. i'm sorry she misses sara, but SHE...
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laceyk:
You are doing what is right!
visara:
That's hectic. Good luck ... smile

Sunday Jul 23, 2006

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got back from camping out at the lake w/ the family today. i had a blast, the girl stayed at home w/ her auntie who "gets creeped out" in the dark, and i got plastered. the lake temp was 70 degrees, and i was in heaven. i REALLY needed it.
weird part, a friend of the family went with us, she's about my age and...
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laceyk:
I loved getting that on my phone! I was so jealous!

Wednesday Jul 19, 2006

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well, i think i've won. the wife was back up here and conceded that she could not afford an lawyer. she said if i took off the supervised part of visitation, the adultery-abandonment-immature, and child support, she would sign over full custody to me. i'm going to have the papers rewritten and sent up to her for her to sign, and back before the court...
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laceyk:
I am so happy you got your daughter! All seems a little bit more right with the world.

And to answer your question Eric took it cause he thought it was funny smile Which it was!
visara:
I also play Magic: The Gathering ... friends?

Sunday Jul 09, 2006

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well, more bad news. tyler, the best man from my wedding...the guy that my wife is with, his dad died yesterday. carol called me last night crying so bad she could barely speak. she told me this and that she didn't know who else to call. in one way i'm glad she called, in the fact that she still values me as a friend. and...
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laceyk:
Arrgggh...I am just annoyed that she keeps pulling you in. Cause she chose to leave you and Sara for Tyler.
And Tyler was not a real friend either.

Please don't give her very much!

Friday Jul 07, 2006

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well, got back from cali yesterday. i was beaten from the trip, and as soon as i walk through the door, my stepsister hands me the phone. my wife is on the phone. she is crying asking me why i wanted full custody, and that she had been faithfull, and she had explained why she had to leave me. i had to clench my teeth...
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laceyk:
She is upset, but you have to be strong. She is just surprised and taking it out on you.
She is still neglectful. She just left her daughter to be with this man. She didn't think about her when she took off.

Please stay strong.

Monday Jul 03, 2006

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well, the beach was great. the girl was terrified of the ocean at first, and then played in it most of the time we were there. we went to cresent cove in laguna beach. the swell was pretty high, but fun. we met another little girl, her hot mom, and three of her mom's hot friends...so i enjoyed myself. also saw fake boobs on a...
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Sunday Jul 02, 2006

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well, been out here 2 days...and i'm exausted. got in fri night, went to a b-day party on sat, went drinking w/ the old crew sat night, went to the grandmother's on sun, went out for a drive and got some cd's sun night.....i'm fuckin' tired man!
rebought the cramps/flamejob, liz phair/guyville, and social d. for25 bucks....gotta love the bargin bin at tower. damn, i...
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laceyk:
It sounds like this is just what you needed!

Friday Jun 30, 2006

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well, i broke down and got a new cellphone last night. i ordered it online using a HUGE discount from work ( sometimes you gotta love corperate amarica). i got the v phone. the one w/ the flip up key board for drunken text mesaging....for those of you that do that kind of thing....and you know who you are. the regular price of the thing...
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laceyk:
Woo hoo!
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