Gosh, now I have this really heavy gut feeling in me. I sometimes say things without thinking about what kind of effect they will have on others or myself. I remember this one time, I was telling people "oh, I don't care how much it snows, I will be at work and on time!" About a week later, it snowed and my stepdad called me and was like "I don't think you should go into work today"....I didn't, and took the heat for it..lol. I didn't want to hurt anyone by my comments. THey were stupid and tasteless and I totally regret saying anything. 