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My answer to that question would be don't think it just live through it.

And family can surprise you sometimes, for proof, read my journal about my encounter with Yazgirl's fam.

I love hearing this from you. Try not to worry about what your parents might think. This is your life and you need to live it in a way that will make you happy. Case closed.

I'm going to have to wait and see where my latest attempt at companionship takes me. I feel that it's prudent to let her take the initiative going forward, but perhaps I'll suggest that we go to a particular party or other BDSM related function at some point if she doesn't reach out to me in a similar way in the near future.

She did email me to tell me that she enjoyed my company and that I should stay i ntouch. Pretty generic stuff, but at least it's not negative.

I hope we can both continue moving forward on the road to happiness and fulfillment.

Your bf looks like a demon from the whedonverse in that image.

Beitiful, just beautiful. You look so happy. I'll also remember not to mess with you, as I want to avoid going to the hospital.

I'll give you the same advice I'm giving myself these days. GO FOR IT!

My goodness, it amazes me how our lives have paralleled each other since we began communicating.. You're obviously in a good place now. I can't tell you how happy that makes me.

I've felt the same way for almost the whole time we've known each other. I propose that we do what we can to help each other continue on the positive path we both seem to be on. Agreed?

VERY awesome. Congrats. You've come a long way.

That is great!

I think being involved in something you're so passionate about is great. Especially if it's something that builds your confidence and self esteem like martial arts.

I see where I originally read your post wrong. Keep on doing what you're doing.

You've made some wonderful changes in your life in recent months. I have faith that you'll do what's best for YOU.

Thanks love, that means a lot.

My choice would be to go have some fun - as long as you're able to keep your heart intact and set boundaries with him and yourself beforehand.

Sometimes in those situations I find the best course is to start dating a couple of people at once. I know that sounds crazy but if you're up front about it with both of them, then it automatically sets boundaries and expectations. For them and you.

Either way, good luck, beautiful.

Easy.
Tell him he's got to leave.

Yeah, Lizabeth has proven to be a woman of common sense and a good friend to me, as has been the case with you.

Something I neglected to mention in my above post. It's actually a question. Is there really such a thing as "meaningless sex"? When you get to my age, any sex has meaning, LOL.

Of course you can. Use the butt kicking for motivation, it's quite powerful

hey you... nutrit it out baby!

New profile pics! I like!

Yeah, sometimes it really helps just to have someone "official" set boundaries for the thought process. At least it does for me.

No... no weight loss for you. You're beautiful the way you are. Waifs get their asses handed to them in taekwondo...

cool. what martial art do you train in? I used to do taekwondo and go to tournaments. You're the first person I've come across on SG who does that.

I did three tournaments: one when I was a yellow belt, lost to the first person. Then I got a gold medal as an orange belt. Then I think I was a green belt when I did the last one. I fought so hard the first match my lips turned blue, basically just outlasted the first guy who got tired. Then I didn't have much left for the second guy and I lost, I think I still got a bronze medal.

I usually got gold in forms, but that's of course a lot different from fighting people you don't know I "retired" from TKD when I was a red stripe; I moved, but also I didn't really feel I was committed enough to go to tournaments as a black belt, so it was the logical time for me to stop.

Now I do aikido, which at my dojo is actually pretty intense. But there's no competitions. Although seminars are a rough equivalent because you're doing aikido all day.

Nice to have another academic around, helps motivate me to post more about things I'm actually interested in

Good luck! train hard, make us proud!