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i'd be kind of taken aback too. especially on FB. wth?

Take care of that right away. I hope you feel better soon.

feel butter.

Please, you was like, totally asking for it.

I don't think it will make much difference. The assholes out there will still be assholes.

I hope you're doing okay. Do you have any free time these days?

then of course there's teaching English almost anywhere in the world...you could work on the Peace Boat too! ever hear of that?

Thanks sweetie!
I am sorry to hear about your dad, but I can also understand sometimes knowing that setting boundaries are what you need to do.

F'n... SWEET.

I like.

congrats!
yeah, on the rare occasions I get to do karaoke go at it pretty seriously.

looks great...love the texture too.

it has been hard, thanks for your kind words.

how are you today?

It would be great if he had never made that first move, yes... but knowing that you scared the shit out of him, and had he not backed off, could probably have leveled the douche... I think you should feel good about that.

Virtue's overrated. Or so I've been hoping.

I think you're doing great. I've seen some wonderful changes in you. That makes me very happy.

From Kahlil Gibran's "The Prophet"

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,but let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but no into eachother's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Looks like your attitude toward the situation is paying dividends. Whoever said that patience is a virtue knew what he or she was talking about.

Congrats.

What a wonderful story and a great honor. Having so much positive reinforcement must feel very satisfying.

By the way. I'm in the city sometimes until all hours of the night. Maybe I should call on you for protection when I'm walking the dark streets of Manhattan at three in the morning.

I agree. I always seem to blog when I'm at my highest or lowest point. I'm feeling better about things.

I actually asked a woman on a date earlier today. We're going to an R&B concert next Saturday at the Theatre at Westbury. She accepted immediately, which was a good feeling. She's not in the lifestyle, which is why I didn't ask her out sooner, as I felt that she liked me. I suppose I was being pretty silly to eliminate every woman outside of the lifestyle from the possibility of forming a relationship.

Regardless, I'm looking forward to the concert and plan to have a great time.

Now that the weather is nicer, maybe we can find time to get together one of these days. My work schedule with the census bureau is pretty flexible, so maybe we can coordinate something.

I wish you and yours all the best.

Good to know. PM, text or call me when you know more about your availability. It's been much too long since we last got together.

texting? the new RElationship mediator

I hope his busy schedule is only temporary. If I was him, I'd make sure I made time for you.