So I hope I hope everyones Christmas was better than mine.
My husband is working for five days in a row till the 31st. I hate this. Am I not supposed to care? that this is his job so deal with it? I tried to tell him that I wanted to go home to my family which is four hours away and he just went crazy and said no I want you home because I want you to be there when I come home. So does that mean that I just stay here by myself every night that he's gone and deal with it? Yes, I do not want to be by myself. I don't have any friends here that I can hang out with. Is it selfish of me to want to go home to my family? I want my husband home every night in my bed.
My husband is working for five days in a row till the 31st. I hate this. Am I not supposed to care? that this is his job so deal with it? I tried to tell him that I wanted to go home to my family which is four hours away and he just went crazy and said no I want you home because I want you to be there when I come home. So does that mean that I just stay here by myself every night that he's gone and deal with it? Yes, I do not want to be by myself. I don't have any friends here that I can hang out with. Is it selfish of me to want to go home to my family? I want my husband home every night in my bed.
weston:
I do not think it is selfish for you to want to spend time with your family. That is what the holidays are about...Being with friends, family, and loved ones. I mean, I can understand your husband wanting you to be there when he gets home...But at the same time, I def think he needs to understand where you are coming from. It isn't like you are flying across country and will be gone for a super long time...I think he should be able to deal with a night or two alone while you visit with family for the holidays. There's my 2 cents anyway 
niobe:
Thanks. 