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I'm glad to say my life isn't messed up. Not in comparison to the people around me. Their mess makes my life complicated, but it's better than the alternative.

I've known for a while that one of my best friends split up with a guy I know when she was 14 'cos he mistreated her. I didn't know details, so I let it go (I just thought he was a rat).

Last night my friend and I went for dinner and she filled me in on the story.

He didn't just mistreat her- he sexually abused her. (NB. This does not mean rape.)
After they split up, 2 of his exes told her he'd done the same thing to them.
He's now engaged to another girl I've known for ages, and they're getting married at Easter.
The guy is also a cop. I don't know how that affects things, but it seems like something worth mention.

My friend doesn't know his fiancee well enough to feel like she could tell her, and to be honest, I think she wants to put the pain behind her.
I however know at least 3 people involved in this pretty well and I'd feel awful if I didn't make sure she knew.

I just don't know where to start.

Any ideas?