Today an ex boyfriend/ ex friend got a hold of me via the interwebs... It's odd, we haven't really spoken since the break-up about 3 years ago, and now out of the blue it's "Hey how's it going?".
Makes me wonder if he's actually forgiven me. I only say that because when we broke up he played it off like he wasn't heartbroken, and I guess he really was. He told me that he didn't love me, and I loved him. So to put me out of my own misery I broke up with him. Soon after we did the "box exchange" and he told me that we couldn't be friends. If I wasn't heartbroken before... I was beyond crushed. I proceeded to put him in a little box and forget about him completely.
Until today. I didn't realize how much I missed him... (the ex friend part that is.)
Makes me wonder if he's actually forgiven me. I only say that because when we broke up he played it off like he wasn't heartbroken, and I guess he really was. He told me that he didn't love me, and I loved him. So to put me out of my own misery I broke up with him. Soon after we did the "box exchange" and he told me that we couldn't be friends. If I wasn't heartbroken before... I was beyond crushed. I proceeded to put him in a little box and forget about him completely.
Until today. I didn't realize how much I missed him... (the ex friend part that is.)
It would be nice if we could all be friends with our exes. After of course the wounds have healed. Some do it, I haven't had any luck so far lol
As for your blog, I know how it feels all to well! Those we've loved wether Friends or relationship wise we can never truly forget. I hope that by him contacting you again you can at least become friends again! Guys might not show pain during a break up but 9 times out of 10 they are just as broken up about it as you!