Hey there peeps, how are yous all? Welcome to another edition of speaking my mind without things being blown out of proportion cause I'm not a porn guy. It's the Fury's In General blog which i just talk like a mature adult about a range of things. Basically it's all random lol.
Anyway I do want to thank you all for the feedback on my latest blogs. I do appreciate it, really. I'm happy that my Hopeful Highlight blogs has been going well and everyone enjoys it. Hopefully it introduces yous to a model you may missed out on. And my recent FSS blog has over 50 likes so far so it's a big success that one, so proud of that one. Glad everyone enjoyed it. I will be doing another Hopeful Highlight blog next week somepoint. Remember to send your request on which hopeful I'll cover next. So far I've done @manika & @gnomi and also I am going to do an Appreciation Blog next week too on a long time favourite of mine that I've known for ages now so keep your eye on that as well as an Questionnaire blog since I got nominated. So yeah plenty of blogs.
I know yous may think it's work but it isn't. I actually been enjoying writing blogs on this site to yous no matter what it is. It's much better than when I was doing the fan accounts on the social media cause tbh I never did enjoyed it. I did like sharing and support the models part don't get me wrong. And also chatting to them. I miss that. I'm going to chat about why I don't miss my fan accounts.
Now I know a lot of yous probably do miss it and I'm sorry that I closed it without saying I am. But tbh social media is something I never liked at all. More than ever before. Probably from the recent events that let me to quit it but tbh I never really enjoyed it due to a lot of things. I think it was a chore cause I also got warnings on IG too and I didn't broke the rules like a lot of yous models, I keep mine SFW like my blogs since it helps the promoting the sets/models (learn that from @keshia) but I get those for no reason at all. Also I was always getting DMs from these ppl who think I'm the model that I'm posting about all the time. It was mad. I keep saying I'm a fan account every day to these ppl who don't read the bios. So it was a lot of that. But those were just minor reasons. Main reasons why I don't miss it is cause I feel sad whenever I see post about how evil men are cause one twat posted a dick pic into some model's DM and she says all guys are awful. That's one example and it's worse on Twitter. So much hate/sexism goes on there and it's very toxic to see you know. Especially I'm doing my best to support female alt models cause I'm a fan you know. I don't do it for rewards or anything. I do that cause I thought it was a cool thing to do cause social media is really toxic. No wonder ppl get mental health problems from it. Usually I stomach all of that but it is daily. I never get it on here but on social media is a loose cannon. Also it's very forceful too. Without mentioning names cause I'm not going down that road again. They were a lot of models I follow that were negative and tbh I hated their stories/post. I think it's put on and too in your face you know and I think it's wrong you know. Like cool you out and about, you got a BF, etc we get it. It was pissing me off most of the time and I'm like how shallow you are. I don't like ppl like that. I think it just creates an toxic environment surrounded those ppl. And to those you are alone and unhappy with their personal life, it'll make them feel more shitty and I think that's wrong. That's why I always recommend leaving social media since it creates this toxic environment in your head. When you look at these people that love to show off how perfect & great their lives are, you feel awful. Like your life is not good, I'm not that good looking and everything sucks. But in truth it's the opposite. Those ones that overly post and show off and just being toxic who others. Their the ones who are the most unhappy and feel like they need to do that online to paint a picture of what they think they are but it isn't.
So I don't miss it really. I miss the great convos and supporting the models but I'm doing it here already and here it's toxic free. So of course I'm staying here online wise. I learn a lot about the side effects from social media from reading stuff online and watching videos on youtube (Clips of some podcast) like this one from Joe Rogan...
or this one...
The Joe Rogan is shorter but the Ted one is longer and more detailed. There's more of those on Youtube and just from google search that yous can find yourself. I'll keep sending my recommendations since I believe that it is great for your mental health to take a big break from it or quit all together. I do get a lot of models and photographers need to use it since it is your job and all. But I think if you can, take a break from it all.
So far I quit Facebook, Snapchat, IG, Twitter and sites like OnlyFans & I'm thinking of deleting my Xtremeplaypen account too. So I'm more offline than online. The only time I'm online is this place. And tbh I don't reveal much about me personally. Other than just myself but never about everyone else in my personal life. Best way to be cause I'm old fashioned that way. I do love to be sociable, that's why I'm still here cause I do have mates from this site. That's why I don't know if I want to quit XtremePlaypen since I have mates on there too. That's one of the good things about online is I met new ppl on here and on my fan accounts. Probably ppl I'll never met face to face but their good ppl nonetheless. Never say never but I know when I join this site I probably not going to meet ppl on here. It's probably for the best but idk I hate feeling like that but I know it's mostly true. Especially most are on the other side of the world.
It's actually good to have zero exceptions cause you don't set yourself up to disappointment you know. I learn that big time and I've developed that. Especially after I feel like @reallifepirate was ignoring me but she was busy with her three jobs and social life as she should be. Luckily we made amends and hope she is doing well. Like I always keep saying in my blogs cause it is true. I do wish you well. I keep seeing @tommy saying she's upset about her modelling and how she feels. I'm like you do you and do what you feel is right. Do what you think is best for you and make yourself happy. She wants to do photography and I say do it but be sure. I care about the mental health well being of ppl. Cause ppl forget that models are ppl too like me as well. We're all are one.
That's why I think having zero exceptions is best for your mental health and I fully understand that now. I don't expect to see or meet the likes of @tripodski @niallpatterson @ojtheviking @xheartswornx @blaizee @sammiii @phianixx @missjcristina @peachynorth @evoke @gnomi @chroi @tink @keshia and so forth in person cause of a number of different reasons. Even though it would be cool and awesome but I don't think it'll happen. But life is strange sometimes. I'm not saying I wouldn't, just I don't think it will. Maybe they think differently and do want to or not. Either way it's all good. It's like getting free prints from them cause their generous people and love my support & blog work. But I don't do it for the rewards or anything, that's all them and I accept cause it is nice you know. It's cause I don't force upon them or be negative to them like everyone else. If I do feel like I am, I'm quick to apologise cause that's never been my intention. My intention is always positive and do good you know. And I know that about myself, I'm confident that I am a good guy. If anyone thinks otherwise, quite frankly I don't give a shit. The true ppl know that I am a good dude. Especially the people on here. Ppl in my personal life know that I am a good guy cause they know it face to face. Believe it or not, I am who I am. And I've gain that conference within me. And I think being off the social media was the key.
Tbh I'm enjoying my time away from the online stuff besides my blogs cause I do love supporting and socialising with yous all. No bullshit. Yous guys are why I staying on here. If it wasn't for yous, I'll be gone from online fully so I thank yous all.
Also I'm back doing my walks again. Going to the comicbook store and getting Blu Rays/DVDs lol. I also spread a lot of time watching TV/films, going to the cinema with my mate often, reading books/novels, gaming, cooking, etc. I do know when to take a break and chill out. I think my walks is basically that. Being out with mates is that and just enjoying life you know. Tbh with social media. I'm 32 now, I'm getting too mature and old for that stuff now. Yous can keep it. I'm going nowhere near it now. If I'm going to be out of touch or uncool. Then I'm out of touch and uncool cause I choose to life my life. As Jim Cornette will say "thank you, fuck you, goodbye" social media lol.
Tbh nothing is really changed. I'm still writing blog here and socialising with mates I've made here. I'm supporting models and backing on Patreon. But I do withdraw when there's a big video game release or something like that but I do come back. What about supporting OnlyFans again? Who knows. But I'm not really despite to go back. I only on it to support the models but I learn that I don't need it cause I do it on here and can do it in my own terms. And everyone respects that. If not it's to block city. Online I got nothing to lose. Either be cool with me or your block and tbh so far I haven't done it much here since everyone is good to me as I to them.
I'm only human after all.
Luckily I'm too addicted to the Arrowverse shows to be too bothered by negativity. I'm currently going to start season two of Arrow after binge watching season 1. And I'm watching Person Of Interest too. Great shows btw peeps. Also video game wise I'm loving Star Wars Jedi Fallen Order & The Witcher 3. So it is all good really. I'm getting there. It's good to type this to get it off my chest. That's what the In General blog is about. It's to get what's in my mind off my chest to friends like all of yous.
So thank yous all for reading this blog. I am grateful to yous all and I'm happy you all enjoy my blogs. It will be often so keep your eyes open and feel free to talk to me. I'm happy to chat away.
Yous guys & gals are the best. And I do mean it.
Anyway til the next blog this is KungFury saying take care, much love and
@missy @rambo @sean @eirenne @teal @lust
