Last night my open non-committal relationship came to an end, for 18 months now I've been seeing a lass I've known most of my adult life, we both had been single for a couple of years when we got together and neither of us were in the frame of mind to settle down with someone but we really liked each other and decided...
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eave:
Maybe this might sound a little harsh but it sounds as though she's spat the dummy out because she was rejected by a married man. In my experience (though I don't have so many years on me haha) when people are rejected and they don't know how to take it, they throw everything in and basically go in a childlike huff - which sounds exactly like your describing here. Personally, if I was you I wouldn't contact her. I'd just leave it for now. Within a few weeks I'm sure she'll get back in touch with you once she's calmed down and accepted the rejection. A very, very similar thing happened to myself and the guy went in a complete huff when someone rejected him (he wasn't used to it) so EVERYTHING was pointless, EVERYTHING was chucked away - including me! After a month he *tried* to crawl back to me apologising profusely but I wasn't interested in him anymore. Safe to say he spat the dummy out again haha! I hope you get it sorted out x
kiltedscotsm:
Thanks @eave I'm starting to wonder if it's all worth the hassle, if she does come back is it all going to happen again the next time she goes through rejection, and the whole "oh we'll still be good pals" thing I got texted to me after she left last night, I think you're right, just leave her be, see how it goes in the future. Thanks for the advice, I don't really have many people to ask these things. x