What do you do if you're in a long term, committed relationship and your partner doesn't put out enough? My sexual appetite is enormous and his is average, I guess. Ugh. Don't want to look elsewhere but nothing seems to be working. We're in couples therapy, we talk about it, I masturbate plenty, we watch porn together. His libido is just in a different place than mine. Or is at a different pace, rather. Thoughts?