Another day gone by ... it is starting to feel a lot better!
So, a question for you all ... in a relationship that you really truly want to last forever should you have your spouse/girlfriend/etc. as number one in your life or should anything be above them? Curious to hear what you have to say about that?
Also, do you think it is too early to try and move on by looking/chatting/flirting with someone new?
This is all new to me ... any insight will be helpful
Thanks!
KerouacBum
So, a question for you all ... in a relationship that you really truly want to last forever should you have your spouse/girlfriend/etc. as number one in your life or should anything be above them? Curious to hear what you have to say about that?
Also, do you think it is too early to try and move on by looking/chatting/flirting with someone new?
This is all new to me ... any insight will be helpful
Thanks!
KerouacBum
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everyone is dfferent.I took time to meet new people and friends.I went out and had/have been living a blast. then I slowly strated to date here and there as it felt right.and theres all kinds of dating. date once, a few time or more if you like. one nighters, romances and even no namers. lol. healing takes time.I've taken the time also to take care of me.Give back to me what was lost and not given to while being w/ my ex(so thats taken some time lol).
really its up to you to judge your self. be real and true to you and then those around you and it will fall into place.good luck honey.
as far as putting someone or something "above" ur loved one...thats hard to say too. my family comes before my next boyfriend but can change w/ time. i need to learn to put myself above all so long as I'm not hurting anyone. what is hurting someone? well heres a story. when I was a teen and leaving w/ my da he had only one rule dont do anything to hurt ur self or anyone else. I thought cool. I came lateon a scholl nite and was grounded the next day. I reminded my dad about his rule and he said thats right.I as confussed.he said...you hurt your mon and I by worring about you. and you only got 5 hrs of sleep before school and was late.anyway you get the picture.
I guess my point...lol.. you first,dont hurt anyone and then it doesn't matter whos #1 #2 #3.....
I hope you got something positive out of all this drunken ramble typing. wish we could have done it over a cup of coffee.I might have made more sence and been more helpful.
gnite!