justme159

so, here's my new dilemma...

there is this guy who is interested in me and i am interested in him. i used to see him all the time at the gym but he took the summer off, so we have only been chatting through email and texting. i haven't seen him since probably early july and that was only briefly that i saw him.

we started getting better acquainted through facebook, which he doesn't have anymore and i never use. i was assuming that he had looked through it and seen my pictures~which included baby stuff. but, now i have this fear that he doesn't know that i am pregnant. what should i do?

this is where i need male advice (and of course female advice is always welcome too) ~~~

do i just go on "assuming" he knows and try to hang out with him and deal with it then? or do i ask him now? and if i do ask him if he knows, how do i go about doing so? i was thinking of just asking him if he had looked at my facebook photos and just go from there. i just don't know what to do.

the thing is~and i know this~is that if the thought of me being prego is going to bother him, then he's not the one for me. if he's a good guy for me, then that little fact shouldn't turn him off that much, right? or am i just kidding myself?

either way, the truth is eventually going to come out...i just need advice on when and how.

so, guys, please please PLEASE offer up your advice!