julies1103

I suppose I should write something here since it's been a while. I'm so tired of everyone commenting on how quiet I am and telling me I need to be louder or talk more. I've been this quiet for 23 years. I really don't think it's going to change now. I really just don't feel the need to talk all of the time and say nothing. I'm not antisocial, I'm not a bitch, I'm not really that shy. I'm just an introvert. I'm an observer, a listener and yes quiet , but I have a great eye for detail, give great advice and when I say something it's meaningful. I can be loud sometimes. Not very often but I can. I just choose not to be. I don't need to be the center of attention. I don't even need that much attention. What I do need is for people to stop wanting me to be something I'm not and just accept me for who I am and if they won't or don't want to then move on. Why do we always think someone's too much or not enough of something. Why can't we just be happy with people the way they are. I really don't think it's too much to ask.