jujubee

you need to put yourself on the highest priority. What is the point of life if all you ever do is work. You aren't letting your friends down you are letting yourself down because working all the time is not living. We work to afford to live, not live to work.

I know this because my new job has given me back my life. The hours are shorter and I am not tired all the time. I now have more time to see my friends and I realize how much I was missing by working all the time. Back with my old job, even when I would go out I wouldn't really be there because I was so wiped all the time.

Ask yourself this...
Why do I work so much?
Am I hiding from something in my life by working so much or am I afraid I can't afford my bills with out so many hours?
What is my payoff for so much work (financial, emotional or other)?
What am I missing by working so much?
Is there a way I could work less and still afford (financially) to live?

When I answered these questions myself I was really surprised at the answers. then when I made the change I was even more surprised by the things I got back that I didn't know were missing.

Remember it is not selfish to take care of yourself, you are worth it.

No no I am apply for a government job, I posted that in a journal or two ago. I have a huge packet to get filled out in 10 days and get my finger prints done. Should be interesting since it takes about 6 months, I have no idea if I will even want the job then you know?

Your party sounds like it was awesome, sorry I did not know about it!

You are such an attractive and gorgeous woman... So nice you had a great party... Happy Birthday.... wishing you the best and may all your best hopes dreams and projects come to fruition... MUAH !!!!!

aw sucks about the program, but at least you get to sleep in for a bit. and that is priceless

It sucks about the program, I tried to get onto Canada's next top chef, but they wouldn't take contestants from Canada. That is what really sucks. Hell's Kitchen won't take Canadians either.

WOOHOO! God I hope this works out!

this isn't it, it only gets better with age. start looking forward toyour 30's.

I really don't know if I would consider most things I do "normal", but sometimes I do make-up stories for inanimate objects, it just kinda pours out of me.

Literal passage dedicated to my koala slippers.

JUJUBEE!! Your new nickname is "Pickles"!!!

Story for pending application:

One night before the start of service, I was down in the basement having my meal and relaxing. The basement is taken by 1/2 prep area and 1/2 offices. The owners office door was open and her favorite waiter came down for a conversation. The conversation was ending and she was saying they all better get the floor organized or the servers will look stupid out there. So, her favorite waiter states "Even when I'm stupid, I'm still pretty!" The rest of the kitchen found the comment quite hilarious.

If you require a story with blood, burns, trauma, and chaos, I have those as well. But, I still trying to figure how "Even when I'm stupid, I'm still pretty" is a good thing.

You miss out. Fill my moat with your tears!

Davy Jones' Locker Why sailors should have given the name Davy Jones to "the fiend that presides over all the evil spirits of the deep" (Smollett) is not clear. Some philologists, nothing that Black West Indians refer to ghosts as duppies, suggest that "Davy Jones" may derive from "Duppy Jonah"--Jonah's ghost. Certainly sailors long used "Jonah" to mean anyone (or anything) that, like the original Jonah, was thought to mean bad luck aboard ship--which was why Jonah was flung overboard to be swallowed by the whale. However Davy Jones acquired his name, his locker is the ocean bottom, the final resting place of sunken ships, drowned sailors and anything else given the deep six.

Deep six, the.Though this phrase sometimes means the grave, it doesn't, as you might think, refer to a deep "six by three" hole in the ground; it's from the sea, not the land. When a ship moved toward shallow water, the crew would take soundings with a lead weight attached to a line. The line was marked at specific intervals, as with a knot, a piece of calico, a strip of leather and so on. The marks were placed at one fathom (six feet or 1.83 meters), two fathoms, five fathoms and ten fathoms. If the line ran out to one of the marks, the leadsman would call out "Mark five!" or whatever the depth was; for depths between the marks, he'd estimate and call out "Deep four!" or "Deep six!"
But--why do we say "deep six" rather than one of the other "deeps"? I'd guess it had to do with the tides, whose rise and fall almost anywhere in the world is less--usually much less--than six fathoms. That is, something or someone thrown overboard in six fathoms at high tide would remain submerged even at extreme low water; if you give something the deep six, you've disposed of it permanently.

Between the devil and the deep seaThe "devil" in question was the outermost seam of the deck of a wooden ship. If you're between the devil and the deep sea, you're in imminent danger of going overboard--though the modern sense is closer to "between a rock and a hard place."

Aww they're cute and all but dude...
KAY HANLEY
May 22 at the Key club in West hollywood
10pm
FREE!!!!!
I think you suddenly came down with a good reason not to go to work! Giggity!

that's pretty good.

Ain't that the truth. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
p.s. I don't know if you work today but call me!

usually love takes longer then a day to go away ... although partners can do stuff you hate ...

See you love the rocky horrow .. very cool ....

As far as microwaving popcorn just find out how long you need to do it in your microwave .. the other ways do taste much, much better though ....

Can't say I know My Chemical Romance all that well ... Its amazing how I am starting to just go with what I like ....

Can barely listen to modern pop now ... I guess I am getting older

How do you keep changing your message?