judypatricia

A friend so close to me that we refer to each other as "brother" and "sister", has not spoken with me over the phone in over a month, except once. We hardly ever go for more than about three days without talking to each other on the phone. He lives in the bottom of Brooklyn, and I live at the top of Queens, so unless he drives over to see me with his best friend, we don't really see much of one another. He never answers me online, except for the recent, and somewhat obligatory, "Have a safe flight," and "Welcome back." Every time I do try to call him, I get his voicemail; if I leave him a message, it's not returned. I can only assume he's busy with school, however, he's never completely ignored me during a hectic school/workload. Then my assumptions rest on his relationship with his girlfriend. From the beginning, she has felt a bit uncomfortable with the fact that he and I are such good friends. And the girlfriend he's had prior to this one, has never liked me because of the same thing. But that isn't my fault; he and I have a bond that I'm not willing to give up over some broad's insecurities. From repeated conversations with him, he's told me so often how much he loves her, and how much he wants to be in her life, and he makes her sound so unappreciative. It bothers me because I used to be her when I was with Antonio. When he tells me the kinds of things she'll say to him, all I want to do is call her, yell at her, make her understand what she has right in front of her. My bro is such a good guy; he could use a little common sense sometimes, but he's very caring of the people close to him. So I'm beginning to feel hurt that he's not speaking to me. I assume it has something to do with a completely wacko LiveJournal incident, but I could be wrong.