So,.......
I just e-mailed a girl a confrontation letter. We worked together at my last job which I held for 7 years. And every day for 7 years this hoe made my life a living fucking hell. And obviously I still get angry when the memories roll by or it comes up in conversation.
I was to the point and even polite, her response cracks me up as I was such a good employee I was constantly handed more duties because other staff couldn't get it right to the point that when I left I handled 40 wholesale accounts and was in charge of ordering stocking shelving pricing and displaying every single product carried within our store. Which previously took 4 people to do.
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Jessica Graves July 31 at 11:11am
This may seem out of no where, it's something that's been eating at me for a while and to move on I need to get it off my chest.
The day when you told Kathi you were pregnant with your baby girl in the stockroom after coming back from an errand, Randy still worked there. I had a conversation with you about us all not talking about each other you thought I was singling you out. I wasn't. When you left to run the errand Randy started in saying some nasty shit about you. Kathi joined in. And I told them to stop before they got too far into their bashing. That's when I walked to every person in the pharmacy and told everyone to have respect for each other. I was in fact defending you.
You've never been a fan of mine I didn't have a problem with that. But you brought your dislike blatantly to my face every single day I worked for the pharmacy. For almost 7 years you made my life a living hell. In fact I had twice written out letters of resignation to Brett to quit because of your attitude and behavior towards me and each time Kathi talked me out of it.
Plainly said, to me, you were a cold hearted bitch. And I believe fully that on most occasions you even took pleasure in it.
Hell, I'm not even judging you. Just stating the facts of your conduct towards me for nearly 7 years.
You're a bully. A bully who was bullied and become what tormented them as children.
I can imagine you'll like me much less after this and I'm ok with that. Because when I start to describe to people here in New York about my days at the pharmacy whenever a story falls on you or includes you I am still filled with rage at how you treated me. And not even me, but other people.
At one point I asked the pharmacists to step in as managers and handle it. They agreed of what they had seen with their own eyes of what you were doing but no one wanted to touch it. Lucky you.
I'm not telling you this now to hurt you. I wish you no ill will at all actually. I am actually happy that you have your children and are growing slowly into something possibly softer. I hope it continues and you can live a fruitful life.
It was simply time for confrontation having realized how insanely those memories still effect me so many many miles away.
I'm not looking for an apology. I want nothing from you, except maybe to forget you.
Even now I feel a slight pain in letting this all out because you're on the receiving end even though I don't feel anyone should ever be treated so poorly as you had with me.. But sympathy I cannot give.
Cassie Mason De Clue July 31 at 11:20am Report
It wasn't you as a person that I disliked. It was you as an employee. There were a ton of screw ups that I had to fix that were yours. You weren't told about every single one. Your work ethic was lacking. You were late to work more often than not and blamed it on everyone else. You took no responsibility for your actions, or lack there of. You spent most of you time on your phone and left things for the night crew to do. Manage time wisely and maybe people won't be mad at you for things that YOU can control!
Enjoy.
I at least said my peace.
