Hearing loss caused by a form of nerve damage runs in one side of my family. It hit my brother early. He had his first set of hearing aids 1st or 2nd grade. He is currently deaf in one ear and has 20% hearing in the other.

Tomorrow, after much encouragement and all the BS you'd expect in arranging something through not only the...
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Sometimes even someone as blunt as me is afraid to say what's on his mind.

So, what would I say with the slightest bit of encouragement from you?

I'd say, "Get your butt back to Tennessee. Take whatever time you need to deal with him and your whole situation. And when that's done, let me know. And I'll do everything I...
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Why do I think that everything must rhyme?

"This time instead of getting up and going back to him... just get up and close the door"

That's some great songwriting. Doesn't rhyme at all.

So this girl that I've been kinda nuts about since we worked together about 5 years ago is moving back to the area after going back to her home state for a few years.

She herself has told me that I should have said something. I thought any chance was gone when she moved, and tried to write it off as gone when she...
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Today I had a brief conversation with the ex girlfriend of one of my friends. She asked if I still talked with him. I said, "Here and there. We keep meaning to get together and never do."

She said they hadn't talked since he got married (I was best man and literally the only person there that wasn't on the bride's side...
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It occurred to me tonight that even as a dopey teenager, I never gave myself a punk rock name. Now I wonder what it would have been.

Starting at the first of the year, my health insurance through my job changed.

The therapist I've been working with for about 5 years isn't approved for the new insurance. The only reason is that another, longer tenured therapist is approved for it, and for some reason they'll only approve one.

It actually took me about three years to get comfortable enough...
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mortis322:
That really sucks!!!