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jaynamolana

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am I a ghost?

Jun 20, 2015
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I've made some discovery lately... I'm a lil active on facebook to write with freinds and some stuff. Sometimes I share some pictures there or post some news of mine.
But in the last couple of months - or better said in the last years - I realised, no one likes or comments my stuff. Sometimes they don't even write me back.

No one cares what I'm doing, what I'm sharing or what I'm feeling. It's like I don't exist!

Is everyone too busy with their own life? Don't they care about me anymore? Or is everything that I'm posting just shit nobody wants to see? This makes me a lil unsure about what I'm doing. Insecure about my person. And my 'friends' (whether they are or not)... So, don't get me wrong, I'm not the person who counts the 'likes' on every post of mine, but actually it's great to see, that friends care about me and my postings and like the same things as I do. But it's not like this anymore.

I just feel like I'm a shadow... A ghost. Not existant. NOT REAL. No one answers my questions. No one seems to notice me. This feels weird. And it feels weird to post about all this right here. But I miss a blog. And I have one here. If anyone cares here? I don't know. But no one would care about my writing somewhere else, so u have to excuse :D

And if u'd come to this point, here's a pic for u brave readers :D

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whuh1:
Speaking of ghosts though.  Ever wonder about the ghost-like philosophical aspects of online communication?  Two minds, two spirits, can communicate with one another instantaneously over time and space via the internet without physical contact.  Like, me, a guy in New York, communicating with a German girl I've never seen in real life.  No physical interaction, all via the mind through electricity.  It's almost like talking with ghosts, talking with spirits.  What if you were talking with a dead spirit?  Talking with a literal ghost?  Could you discern it from the living?  What if I'm dead and my soul is embedded in a computer?  How could you tell?  It would make a good movie.  A facebook ghost movie.  
Jun 21, 2015
drwhosit:
I don't think that it has something to do with you. I don't know a lot of other so called social media but FB surely is just pretending to be there for communication. In the end most people just want to be present themselves and show their worldshaking stuff but are not really interested in what others post or even to communicate with them. I've also observed that posts like "Good night" or "Have a nice weekend" get lots of likes, while witty or interesting posts merely get ignored.
Jun 25, 2015

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