As a teen it was so very easy to get a date. Girls were so easy to please and a guy didn't need a lot to make his teen aged girlfriend happy. Giving her any type of material gift made her happy. Spending some free time made her happy. Doing something for her made her happy. As an adult, finding a date is next...
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Most people see a glass of water as half empty or half full. Here's how I see it: ''There's a half of a glass of water in there'' then I take the glass of water, drink it, set it outside and let the rain fill it back up and then sell it. That IS the kind of person I am. Most people say...
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There's a very fine line between being a badass and being an asshole. When I turned 18, I was so far away from both of these that I didn't know there was such a thing. I was the nicest and sweetest person I knew. As I've aged, I've become A badass and an asshole. If I am to become the person...
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We humans cannot learn to love. It's something we're all born with. However we can learn to hate.

Happy early Saint Valentine's day to all you lovers out there. Since it falls on Tuesday this year, I'm sure many are celebrating it today and tomorrow. Some day I'll have my own Valentine to love.

If you're looking to date, here's an idea: Make her ask you a question. Questions show interest. Now just because she's asked you a question doesn't mean she wants to ride you. It just means she's interested in the topic. Now that she's on the hook, it's time to reel her in.

Someone asked me at work today, ''When was the last time you went on a date?" I said, "I don't know. Years." I had to think about that. Several hours later I found the answer. 2/23/08. It was a Saturday. That was nearly 9 years ago. I've been single for 9 years! Sure I've asked hundreds maybe even thousands of...
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