jaeiam

It is true that people will only tolerate as much abuse from another as they feel they deserve, or as much abuse as they would give to themselves if able. Once the punishment is sufficient the victim moves on, clearly feeling refreshed. For any abuse they inflicted on any previous victims themselves has now been matched. Guilt free. Pain is a cycle that is endless it is passed from one person to another unconciously. This is a true human nature. Once we lash out, once we inflict we are relieved. You are giving away that festering negativity. Releasing it. Sadly though it will continue with every negative attitude,comment or even glance it transfers from one to another. Maybe that is the mystery of spontaneous combustion, a person that rather than give away the energy lets it fester inside until one day...