Dating is such a pain in the ass. I dont know what i should do about my current situation. its so hard to summarize in any sort of tangible mannor, im not even sure whats going on anymore. so many games!! its fucked up, when we're getting along its great. im happy, shes happy, it works out. but thats for a week at most. then something happens and and we dont get along and its a nightmare. current example:
the g/f and i had a talk about our current situation after a spat. so everythings ok, and im talking to her on the phone on monday. i have to go due to massive amounts of homework. i get the hint that theres something she wants to talk about, so i ask her. she says we can talk about it later, although its really important to her. she gets kinda upset because we cant talk and says she has to go. shes upset. i call back like the good bitch i am and ask her whats up. she wont go into it and we hang up. next day we talk and i mention us talking again, she gets wierd on me and has to go. today i text her saying why dont we talk about it tonight? bear in mind she mentoined that she was gonna be buisy today. she also thinks im mad for some reason? long story short, i say after your firend comes over you should call me and we can talk if we have time. she never calls. i can see whats going to happen tommorow too... shes gonna be pissed because i didnt call and 'it feels like i dont care' and all that bs.
i dont know, im not sure if i should break it off or if i should continue to stick it out or what. its so hard to know what the right thing is to do in relationships.. i just feel like she's playing games, and thats something i dont want to deal with. i also know that i have my own flaws and lack some dating experience, but i think what i'm dealing with isnt right. shes 20. dunno....
the g/f and i had a talk about our current situation after a spat. so everythings ok, and im talking to her on the phone on monday. i have to go due to massive amounts of homework. i get the hint that theres something she wants to talk about, so i ask her. she says we can talk about it later, although its really important to her. she gets kinda upset because we cant talk and says she has to go. shes upset. i call back like the good bitch i am and ask her whats up. she wont go into it and we hang up. next day we talk and i mention us talking again, she gets wierd on me and has to go. today i text her saying why dont we talk about it tonight? bear in mind she mentoined that she was gonna be buisy today. she also thinks im mad for some reason? long story short, i say after your firend comes over you should call me and we can talk if we have time. she never calls. i can see whats going to happen tommorow too... shes gonna be pissed because i didnt call and 'it feels like i dont care' and all that bs.
i dont know, im not sure if i should break it off or if i should continue to stick it out or what. its so hard to know what the right thing is to do in relationships.. i just feel like she's playing games, and thats something i dont want to deal with. i also know that i have my own flaws and lack some dating experience, but i think what i'm dealing with isnt right. shes 20. dunno....
wtf:
If she wants to talk seems like she would talk to you. On the other hand, it seems like she is holding something back. I would ask her once and then drop it. She is definately playing games. If not with you, then with herself. Shitty.