Once I stayed in bed for about five days....festering in my own filth...I have a TV at the foot of the bed and at the time a mini fridge as a night stand so that helped me pass the time....when I emerged back to the outside world it all seemed so strange and futuristic to me with the iphone 4,3D TVs and Vacuum Robots that clean the floor...OH you're talking about for sex ...well this is embarrassing for me,my mistake.(lol).
I say both only cause the slow you can look into their eyes and hit spots and just try and explore all their areas and just pay attention to one another now rough that is when its time to just hit all areas and just dominate them to their every will