Three nights in a row that I have written a blog?!!! I am really digging writing on this site. Maybe it's because unlike Facebook, I don't know anyone on the site and it has a better community ((for the most part)) than something like LiveJournal. So, what is my topic for tonight? Not so much of a brag on myself but a self induced confidence boost if you will.
I'm a nice guy, a real nice guy. I am a good person
I'm sweet and kind, especially to the fairer sex. I'm not a dick ((unless of course you treat me like crap, then it's your own fault)) Even then, people that have hurt me in the past I still treat kindly, because I am better than that. I don't see a girl and think about all these things I would like to "do to" her. If she is one of the rare ones that can catch my eye, I think differently than a lot of others do. It's more of a "Hmm, I wonder what kind of person she is. If I were to get to know her, it could lead to something more than a friendship. We could hang out, I could make her laugh, we could cuddle, watch movies, game together, and so on down the list . I am a nerd and goddamned proud of it! Us nerds are awesome! I can offer great advice, I have always been good at that. I'm one of the best friends you can have, and the rare times I am dating, I rock as a BF. Girlfriend texts me, I'm playing a video game? Yes there is a pause button. Hell I do that for girls that are just friends. If a woman around me is down, I try my best to cheer her up. If one is in danger I do my best to protect them, like walking them to their car in a dark parking light after work and staying in front of them then watching to make sure they get in their car and out of the lot safely. Chivalry isn't dead with me! I know a lot of these facts are random and out of order but I just type them out as I think of them. I'm hysterically funny and have a great sense of humor... and I will stop the list there.
My point is, not just to myself but to anyone else that may read this blog. Don't doubt you are awesome, because you probably are. People will always try to put you down, make you feel worthless, make you feel like a loser and so on. The more people do that, the more it shows how badass you are! I mean why else would they want to bring you down? Remember that these people may feel inferior to you. It's hard sometimes, we have all been through it. I am almost 26 and I can count the number of girlfriends I have had on one hand. I'm not a "ladies man". I'm a nerd, I am short and look young for my age. I can go on and on with the list of things I may personally dislike about myself. But what I do is I realize something. The list of good things, far outweigh whatever may be on the bad list. If you are reading this and are dealing with the issue of feeling down about yourself, compare your two lists. If you still cant find a way to make the good outweigh the bad, talk to people you care about. They will add things to your good list you may not of thought of otherwise. Hell, ask me and I will go to you profile and find at least one thing to add to that list Goodnight everybody.
I'm a nice guy, a real nice guy. I am a good person
I'm sweet and kind, especially to the fairer sex. I'm not a dick ((unless of course you treat me like crap, then it's your own fault)) Even then, people that have hurt me in the past I still treat kindly, because I am better than that. I don't see a girl and think about all these things I would like to "do to" her. If she is one of the rare ones that can catch my eye, I think differently than a lot of others do. It's more of a "Hmm, I wonder what kind of person she is. If I were to get to know her, it could lead to something more than a friendship. We could hang out, I could make her laugh, we could cuddle, watch movies, game together, and so on down the list . I am a nerd and goddamned proud of it! Us nerds are awesome! I can offer great advice, I have always been good at that. I'm one of the best friends you can have, and the rare times I am dating, I rock as a BF. Girlfriend texts me, I'm playing a video game? Yes there is a pause button. Hell I do that for girls that are just friends. If a woman around me is down, I try my best to cheer her up. If one is in danger I do my best to protect them, like walking them to their car in a dark parking light after work and staying in front of them then watching to make sure they get in their car and out of the lot safely. Chivalry isn't dead with me! I know a lot of these facts are random and out of order but I just type them out as I think of them. I'm hysterically funny and have a great sense of humor... and I will stop the list there.
My point is, not just to myself but to anyone else that may read this blog. Don't doubt you are awesome, because you probably are. People will always try to put you down, make you feel worthless, make you feel like a loser and so on. The more people do that, the more it shows how badass you are! I mean why else would they want to bring you down? Remember that these people may feel inferior to you. It's hard sometimes, we have all been through it. I am almost 26 and I can count the number of girlfriends I have had on one hand. I'm not a "ladies man". I'm a nerd, I am short and look young for my age. I can go on and on with the list of things I may personally dislike about myself. But what I do is I realize something. The list of good things, far outweigh whatever may be on the bad list. If you are reading this and are dealing with the issue of feeling down about yourself, compare your two lists. If you still cant find a way to make the good outweigh the bad, talk to people you care about. They will add things to your good list you may not of thought of otherwise. Hell, ask me and I will go to you profile and find at least one thing to add to that list
Goodnight everybody.