goddessasha

So I went to see a speaker for this class I have to take, and I was pleasantly surprised at how interesting she was to me. She spoke of love languages. Everyone speak a main love language and a secondary love language, and this is how they show and receive love. A lot of problems in relationship (couples, kids, and friends) is that two people are speaking different languages so neither one of them truly feel loved. The five languages are, Physical touch, holding hands and snuggling, Quality time, undivided attention even for as few as five minutes at a time, Gifts, give and receiving the story behind each and every gift weather bought, made or found is very important so they have a lot of sentiment for gifts, Words of affirmation, people telling you WHY they love you is better then just being told they love you, And Acts of service, little acts like mowing the yard coming home to a clean house , have a beautiful table set for dinner.

What I find so odd about this was walking into the lecture; I had assumed that I was a quality time physical touch sort of person. But I was surprised to find out I was acts or service and Words. The best way to find out is to see what you most complain about, complaint shows passion for that item.

She went on to act everyone there is they and there spouse speak the same language and no one did, so she used that as a jumping point on haw to show love to someone that speaks a different language. She told us that you have to ACT in a loving way and in time that act of love will turn into a loving act, something you feel love from doing.


I though it was very interesting and I would share with you.