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It's hard.

How do you begin writing about how your best friend for most of your life has told you that he feels he needs to change gender?

Do you know?

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sockpuppet:
How is all that going?`
ghostwritten:
It's going, I suppose.

I maintain a certain skepticism about the issue which troubles me. I don't want to think that it's all a ploy for attention, but... there we are. I believe that transgenderism is legimitate; I just suspect my friend is not truly a candidate for it.

How horrible is that?

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ghostwritten:
I've known my best friend for nearly twenty years. I'd like to say I saw this coming. You'd think someone who'd known a person for such a length of time would. This is the nature of my dilemma.
sockpuppet:
If I may ask, since what age? I remain aware that (for instance) Oscar Wilde fathered two children on his wife, before his later awkwardnesses. There are other examples. People change as they age.
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"Love is so amazing..."

What a load of hooey... no?

No. Not when it's sung by the one person who can pull off such a line (and it IS a line, isn't it? "Love is so amazing", indeed. Who tries that, seriously?)

Apparently, I did. Or have.

I would have. Or have had.
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"Cycle on your bicycle" sounds a pretty stupid lyric, yes, but in context, it works, somehow.

That's a lot of commas in one sentence.
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sockpuppet:
ah, what does "kotcheled" mean? and in what language? (From Yiddish, I'd guess?)
ghostwritten:
"Kotcheled"? Comes from a Shamen lyric to 'Ebeneezer Goode'. Do the Shamen boys speak Yiddish? Dunno. I'd like to think so.
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"Where is my God? He lives inside of me."

I think I can accept that.
sockpuppet:
I feel no need for god.
ghostwritten:
I don't, either. I'm an atheist, and thus don't believe in an afterlife, so I'm not living for reward after I die.

I was just spinning Stevie Wonder (Fulfillingness' First Finale, specifically), whom I love and who loves God quite a lot himself. I do have a weird jealousy for those who are secure in their faith which gives them real joy and contentment. It's a small jealousy, though; I'm just as secure in my perspective and find it quite comfortable to behave in accordance with my moral code without God.

So, essentially, what you said.